I Mean, If Were Not Taking About The Obvious Ones Like Yellow Rose By Ros Mo Or Its Only Sex By Car Seat

I mean, if we’re not taking about the obvious ones like Yellow Rose by Ros Mo or It’s Only Sex by Car Seat Headrest or We’ll Never Have Sex by Leith Ross… In terms of songs,

Crush Culture by Conan Gray

Ep 5: Hating Stuff by Ian McConnell

Headphones On by Miranda Cosgrove

Recess by Melanie Martinez

Renegades by X Ambassadors

Sweet Bod by Lemon Demon

Highway to Hell by AC/DC

And in terms of lyrics, let me see….

“The child in the basement, face to the pavement, oh what a statement, love is embracement, love is a constant, love is embracement” from Enemy by Imagine Dragons

“I don’t really care about / if you love me, if you hate me” from What the Hell by Avril Lavigne

“He don’t love me but that’s okay / Cause I love myself anyway” from I’m a Mess by Bebe Rexha

“Alone at a table for two, and I just wanna be served” from Death of a Bachelor by P!ATD

“We’re happy, free, confused, and lonely in the best way” from 22 by Taylor Swift

Yea, that’s pretty much the gist of it. There’s more—I’ve curated my playlists to be more less romance-focused than mainstream by now— but I can’t go through and find them all right now, and I’ve already exposed myself enough with this list, so… happy to contribute!

Songs and lyrics that are very aro/ace-spec coded either in or out of context:

“Oh, my, love is a lie” - Hits Different by Taylor Swift

“I know that it might sound jaded, but I have to say; I think love is overrated, but I don’t like throwing it away” - Crash and Burn by Thomas Rhett

“Please, I've been on my knees; Change the prophecy; Don't want money, just someone who wants my company” - The Prophecy by Taylor Swift

The Bolter by Taylor Swift

Good Enough for Now by Weird Al

champagne problems by Taylor Swift

“Surreal, I'm damned if I do give a damn what people say; No deal, the 1950s shit they want from me” - Lavender Haze by Taylor Swift

It’s Nice to Have a Friend by Taylor Swift

You Give Love a Bad Name by Bon Jovi

One Way or Another by Blondie

Some of these I can give a concrete reason why it feels aspec coded. Some of them I can't.

Feel free to add!

its why he's called that it's because hes always thinking 😔

Ok but can we talk about the brick suit?

I gotta get me a brick suit.

Also shooting people is bad. Don’t kill people. I still don’t want trump to be president. He’s bad. Don’t like Biden either. Trump is worse. It’s all bad. Clown country. My heart goes out to the victims who were seriously injured or killed as collateral damage here. Maybe if we had better gun safety laws this wouldn’t have happened. I dunno. My cat is in my lap now so I’m done typing.

Tag yourself! I'm somewhere between F1 and F2!!

!!!EDIT!!! Plz read before sending hate:

Look, I genuinely get that this graph doesn't have every gender on it. I know that it is labeled weird, I know that female & male and nonbinary/genderqueer & agender are on opposite sides of the chart. I know that this isn't inclusive to xenogenders, bigender, genderfluid, and a bunch of other genders. I know that people are upset about male being blue and female being pink. I know this graph is not inclusive for every gender out there. I really really do. I never claimed that it had all genders. Hell, I didn't even say it was a great graph! This photo is a screenshot of someone's random Twitter post that I found on pinterest and thought was neat. It was my first time seeing a gender graph that was something more besides male and female and it made me excited. I just wanted to share it with others. If it doesn't fit you, just say so. If your gender isn't on there, just say so. If you want to say how it could be improved or critique it's flaws, then by all means please do so! I have enjoyed scrolling through and seeing all the reblogs and people educating me and sharing better graphs. I love the discussions! I love the battleship and bingo jokes/games that have started. But I would really really appreciate if people would stop sending hate and shaming me for a graph I didn't even create. I am really really sorry for anyone I offended or hurt, it was NOT my intention. That is never my intention. I genuinely didn't think this post would even get more than like 5 likes, I was just sharing something that I thought was neat....

cisgender butch lesbian: i don't care about being misgendered

all the cisgender people in the comments: she understands how she looks. why can't everyone be like that about misgendering?

weird way of telling transgender people to stfu about being misgendered.

like they're just pointing at gnc cisgender people and say "see, this person doesn't mind being misgendered based on looks, those transgendereds are just too sensitive!"

when they know full well misgendering hits different when you're transgender.

especially because she also said "when they see my boobs, they know i'm a woman".

and for transgender people it's often "and when they see [gendered body part] they think they know i'm a man/woman".

those are very different experiences.

especially as a nonbinary person where no one ever genders you correctly.

i've seen more and more cisgender people recently telling transgender and nonbinary people that we're not allowed to get upset when people misgender us if we "look like men/women". i'm tired of it.

stop holding transgender people to cisgender standards down to how we feel about being misgendered.

like, especially for me as a nonbinary person every he and every she just reminds me that the world was never meant for me.

gender stereotypes need to be abolished so people don't get misgendered based on clothes or hair or bodies anymore.

and don't even get me started on "but you look cisgender/like your AGAB". cisgender, transgender, nonbinary, female, male etc. don't have a look. i am nonbinary therefore i look nonbinary.

I hate it when you’re reading smut and you can’t figure out what position they’re in.