So Its Kinda Silly - Tumblr Posts
now realizing that my issues with being attracted to men is because i’m looking at it through the cis-het woman’s perspective. for most of my life that was the only way i could see my relationship should i ever be romantically involved with a man. it was the only one afforded to me through my own and family/friends experiences. but since i’ve taken time to reflect on my own gender identity and subsequently my sexuality, i’ve come to a conclusion
fuck capitalism, fuck the patriarchy, fuck “tradition”
in an average woman’s life (especially with a man), she’s expected to be virtuous, and pure, and submissive, and lots of other bs. i rebuke that, not in MY life or MY future. after unpacking what being a woman means to me and if that is truly what i identify as, i realized that when i separated myself from the traditional label of “woman” i found men less unbearable
in general, my life has been less confusing somehow once i started questioning and figuring out who i am, and feeling more alive, more comfortable with myself
antyways, done here