Pda - Tumblr Posts
Soon enough I will be there. And simply the thought makes me happier than I could ever say. So much excitement fills my blood and pulses like dragonflies over water. Racing. To hold you close and tell you the words I long to say to your very face. It fills me with such joy I fail to adequately express. Though I hope you understand what I mean, and how you feel the same too. Much Love, to you L, you beautiful woman. <3
He's finally here. Has been for nearly a week now, but it still feels so new and wonderful. I can listen to his heart and his breathing, I can touch him. I can kiss him to my hearts content. I am finally home.
metro and the never ending romance of couples ☕
(it makes me sick)
When you end up having a PDA reaction to being tired after taking melatonin:
fellas is it gay to set up situations to kiss ur “rival”
(OCS Nick and Hallow)
even more memes.
There is not a surface my friends have not bumped uglies on apparently. They tell me as much, their pda is legendary. They will make out on the hood of a car.
do you ever sit in ur friends room and just wonder how many times theyve masturbated where ur sitting
Here’s a very weird looking doodle asfdgsdh
(I materialize) look, y'all are in a public library, can you keep the PDA to a minimum? thanks. (I take a swig of frozen peas and walk directly through a bookshelf)
So apparently even the sweetest of sim couples can be exhibitionists...
*PDA meaning Pathological Demand Avoidance
*MaDD meaning Maladaptive Daydreaming Disorder
I was wondering if anyone had any links to posts or studies or whatevers about something i just found out about;
Apparently ppl w PDA have ''people obsessions'' or something along those lines? Every site i read about PDA keeps repeating that we're more likely to be 'obsessed' (i'm assuming they're actually referring to having special interests?) with people than other non-PDA autistics, but i can't find anything on what this actually means?
So. If anyone has anything on that i'd really appreciate it!!
Anybody else w PDA have like, One Specific Person who can get away with anything? Like she has multiple times just straight up told me to do something and it simply just Does Not trigger me at all and then i just. Do the thing. But if anyone else even tried to say the same things to me i'd blow up so fast it wouldn't even be funny
Am I the only one who despises "pervasive drive for autonomy" as an alternative to "pathological demand avoidance"?
PDA takes away so much of my ability to decide for myself what to do; it robs me of my autonomy. I struggle with doing things I enjoy because I make them into demands in my head, I can't watch weekly-airing shows because I tell myself that I have to, that I love this show, that I need to watch the next episode, and then no longer being able to. Because my brain has decided that it just Must go into fight or flight because... I am trying to decide what to do.
It just feels... gross, I guess, to dress it up as "i just have a strong sense of autonomy, i just don't like being told what to do ^_^" when it is genuinely disabling to me, not just in when other people try to influence me, but also when I want to do something and PDA prevents me.
The thing about parenting a PDA kid is that you do not control them. You are not their boss and you are not in control.
The firmer you are the less it works, the more strict you become the less they listen. 'Putting tour foot down' will do nothing but stress them and possibly cause a meltdown.
All you can do is offer comfort, assistance, and advice, but you need to let them make their own decisions, whether they be bad or good, because you cannot stop them.
They might listen to some demands, such as bedtimes or screentime or helping with chores, but only if they are offered lightly. Only if there is wiggle room and they have options.
You are not in control of your PDA child. The sooner you accept that you are not their warden nor owner, the better your relationship will be.
It's finally time to dump my saimota content on all of you
These are frome June 2019 to literally last night (in order)
I'm the gayest man on the planet and this is a warning