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This whole situation with Amberlynn and her mom is getting on my last nerves. I don’t know anyone else in gorl world, so I thought I'd just take my opinions here.
Amber coming on video crying and telling her age-old sob story isn't going to convince anyone. If her mom truly didn't harm a service animal, then tell us some hard-core proof. Not all this pity party crying, that's irrelevant. Was she even in contact with her mom when this supposably happened? Why is she even trying to vouch for her? I'm so tired of her trying to paint her mom in this wonderful light one moment, and the next, she's trauma dumping about her horrible childhood. That's not to say that their relationship couldn't have improved, but typically, when you forgive someone, you move on from the past. Not for Amber, you never know who she likes and who she has a problem with.
Plus, Amber coming to the defense of her mom is hypocritical, seeing as she herself doesn't have a clean slate when it comes to animals. Especially back in the Destiny era or the situation with her leaving Twinkie to go to Chili's.
Also, if Amber was so bothered by these allegations, you'd think she wouldn't make a monetized video about it. She could have just made a post about it on her community tab since she thinks she's so good at writing. But of course not, she saw the opportunity for drama and clicks and couldn't pass it up.
She's putting all the blame on reaction channels as per usual. What do reaction channels have to do with this? If I get accused of something, my main goal would be to disprove it. Not go online and start playing the victim and shaming the people who accused me. It's deflecting, and it's clear as day.
I will give her mom a round of applause, however, for being 10 years sober. That's great, but that doesn't change the things she did in the past. Amber consistently acts like she doesn't know where this drama comes from, as if her "fan base" isn't built from drama. This was the whole reason she claimed she didn't want wifey on camera, so clearly, she understands to some extent.
Why is it a problem for anyone to talk about her mom's PUBLIC records when Amber has countless videos monetizing off of the lives of other people? AKA her filming while Beck was grieving their mom, Destiny in various states of undress, showing Krystal when she was clearly uncomfortable being on camera, showcasing a minor she "befriended", her continuing to say transphobic things to Casey after they broke up, having Beck drive when they weren't in the best mental or physical state. The list goes on. But of course, "how dare these people bring up anything about her mom." Get real.
Amber has been on YouTube for years now. No one forced her to make her content about drama and speculation, but she fed into that. She can't pick and choose what's appropriate and what's not. Amberlynn, if you're so sick with YouTube, get a job, get a degree, lose the weight and become a success story. Do something with yourself besides complaining to the people that give you views and a means to live.
Amberlynn is a notorious liar. I'm not falling for this pity party. I wish her good health, point blank. Yet her continued confusion as to why people think she's lying is infuriating. She literally has videos solely devoted to exposing her own lies. People aren't going to sit around and be fooled by the same song and dance. She can't even take accountability or focus on her health. Instead of taking some time to reevaluate, she's doing the same old thing. Absolutely no humility over the fact that she couldn't do her CT scan. Where does she go afterward? Denny's! It's time to kick it into high gear and stop making excuses. Amberlynn has been on YouTube for how long? 10 years? We have seen nothing more than a gradual gain and her continued pattern of abuse/manipulation of the people around her. Now, she apparently wants to take a break from YouTube? Be my guest! Take time and actually put in some work instead of talking about it. Show the "haters" wrong and do the damn thing. I don't even like being this... "mean," but the cycle is tiring. It's hard to feel sorry for someone who doesn't even feel bad for themselves.
Every time someone likes my posts about Amberlynn, I always think this might be another "Damon White" situation.
"Meat creeps me out"... proceeds to eat meat nearly every meal. 🙄
Who signs a contract and backs out at the last minute because they JUST decided to check if what they're signing up for is allowed? Plus, Amberlynn claims she already signed it. What type of "reputable" company is going to let you back out of something you already signed off on? I'm not even sure if I believe her. She claims that they reached out because of "how well" she was doing on ozempic. However, this is nothing new. Amberlynn loses the same 50 or so pounds and gains it back. She's going to have to do more for me to have any hope. Besides that, what good company would want Amberlynn, the person known for quitting every weight loss solution to be their advocate? She can’t even properly advocate for herself, let alone a product.
Finally the drama is getting good... but at what cost? Amber, you can't blame your audience for the actions of your girlfriend. People are genuinely concerned about her well-being, but of course, she sees anyone who doesn't swoon a hater.
Even if Erica said she was in an "unhappy" marriage, guess what Amberlynn, it's still a MARRIAGE. I've lost my sympathy bone for both parties involved.
(Honesty, this is still a deflection from Tommy. It's lowkey, not even relevant.)
Alexis gets on my nerves, but I think that Amberlynn only sees her as a person to trauma dump to. Even when her supposed "friend" is sharing her feelings, the conversation always circles back to Amber. Somehow, Amberlynn is the one crying as usual.
Mental health doesn't excuse poor behavior. I just have to say it. Amberlynn has been on YouTube for years and has shown the same awful behavior. She loves choice words like "bpd, disassociate, abandonment issues, ect.). When does it get to the point that those aren't valid excuses anymore?
She jumps at the opportunity to play the victim but will never get any real help. If she does have all the problems she claims to have, then the reasonable thing to do would be to go to therapy. She even admits that she'll bounce on and off her medication. How can I feel sympathy for someone who is perfectly fine being "bad?" At the ripe age of 34, you HAVE to stop blaming your actions on things that happened in your childhood. Some of which things people don't even believe, as terrible as it is to say. Why? Well, all she does is lie and contradict herself.
There's got to be a time when you wonder, are all the side characters the problem? The common denomator is Amberlynn. It's tiring to hear her victimize herself. So what, you got "trolled" by people online. So-called haters have been telling her she needs to stop trusting random people online. She has internet haters, sure, but not without reason. If her mental health is so bad off then my advice would be to do what you always threaten to do and leave YouTube.
She wants to pretend that she's so independent and capable now. Then be my guest Amberlynn and try to get a job. Just wait for reality to kick in.
Amber is privileged in so many ways. The fact that she can put in the bare minimum and make an income and be able to afford therapy but refuse it. The fact that there are others in her position that need ozempic to lose weight, but she can so easily brush it off and pretend it's miraculously not working. The fact that her mother can drive her around when others don't have anyone and are forced to learn or walk. The fact that strangers on the internet can warn her of the potential dangers of a new girlfriend when others have to learn the hard way. But no, Amber has to be the unjust villain. Poor Amberlynn.
I don't know why Amberlynn thinks it's quirky and cute to drink all the time. Knowing her addictive personality, she needs to beware. Besides that, who would want to go on a livestream when they aren't fully coherent?
Not to be hateful, but genuinely imagine the amount of alcohol that it would take for a 500 pound person to feel the effects. Amber always claims she's only had one or two drinks, but let's be real...
A year-long friendship isn't that long in the grand scheme of things. Especially considering Amberlynn never even met Alexis in person. Maybe if Amberlynn would stop trauma dumping to people the second they message her, she would stop getting into these situations.
Hold up, how are you going to complain about people being judgemental assholes when you literally drew YOURSELF naked in front of CHILD Losers club dying a slow death by gastric acid?
I'm just now learning that cyraxx got arrested last month.
