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Min Yoongi—you’ve got Army right behind you💜

I don't know who needs to hear this but,

It's okay to say no

It's okay to set boundaries

It's okay to be mad at someone

It's okay to tell someone they crossed a line

It's okay to change your mind

It's okay to back out of something, yes even if it's something you initiated/started

It's okay to want space

It's okay to go back on a promise if it compromises your safety, mental health, etc.

It's okay to cut people out of your life for the same reasons

It's okay to not talk to people for the same reasons

It's okay to have limits

It's okay to say no

not even in a sexual way but i’m just craving affection because i feel like crap i just want someone to hug me for a couple of hours and tell me i’m going to be okay 

Min Yoongi—you’ve got Army right behind you💜

The 1975 being on hiatus is going to be a bit more bearable now that twenty one pilots is coming back with a new album and a tour

in this new year I want you to be alright. I hope you move out. I hope you have enough money to feel safe. I hope you abandon shame and forgive yourself. I hope you get enough sleep and some good news. I hope you laugh a lot and the heaviness of the world eases a bit. I wish you to be alright.

2022.

the year that is ending in less than an hour;

year that felt as long as the feeling of my entire childhood;

year that my heart got more cracks;

year that i tried so hard, so many times;

year i had to let go;

year that tired my soul and left it confused;

year I fell apart and kept together;

year i learnt to care for myself;

year i took a leap into unknown;

year i am still making sense out of...

Just now, while I’m sitting in my pretty new apartment, in a new country, with a new job, all alone at New year’s eve surrounded by muffled sounds of fireworks that I realize - how deeply alone one can feel when there are no distracting playlists or lengthy podcasts to keep company, no friend on the line that makes the rooms of the apartment feel less empty for a little while...

I’ve always lived alone if I think about it, it’s just this time - alone feels lonely. 

You can only hate the boogie man from a distance.

This is exactly why people are afraid of pride. It’s not the children or religion or “family values”. If you’ve never met a queer person it’s so much easier to agree they’re the monsters from the story books.

You have no one to reference. You can’t go “yeah my neighbor joes trans. He would never force surgery on someone. That’s ridiculous and only is said by people who’ve never met a trans person”. If you see us Hugging in the street your horror stories colapse.

Your a person who cries with joy too.

You have a queer loved one too.

Maybe that queer loved one shares a body with you. Maybe they just share a timeline with you.

It’s so hard to insist a death sentence if you have to look them in the eyes. If you have no proof of the “hurt they caused by existing”

This is the beauty queer people always could be and have been. It just only survived in private before.

I have almost a sense of nostalgia for happy pride. That one day we’ll be in the story books for good reasons too.

I haven't seen this circulating here on Tumblr, so I decided to make my own post.

last saturday, in Porto, there was a pride parade going down the street and this old man was standing there, by his front door, waving the portuguese flag. most people on the parade probably thought the same: old person waving the national flag? he's probably protesting against the parade, he's a nationalist of some sort.

then the old man called for that person to come near him. the whole parade stopped. everyone just.. stopped moving. they didn't know what to expect, and most expected the worst. and that person decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and approached the old man. and then... they traded flags, he hugged the person and then he waved the pride flag happily. everyone cheered him.

such a wholesome moment. 🥹❤️🌈

reminder that you’re worth a lot more then you’ll ever realize

it gets better

people can and will help you

just watched the video on youtube on the dad who played omori after his daughter was lost to suicide… it gets better, suicide isn’t the answer and i’m so sorry to anyone and everyone (myself included) for thinking of it as a viable option. you are loved, i promise someone in your life will be willing to get you through the day. it’s gonna be okay someday.

The official sad ghost club

how to make yourself feel a bit better when you have mental illness

• get out of bed. the earlier the better, but if you’re just getting up at 6 PM, at least you’re up, good job

• if you have a bed, make it. Try your hardest to make it neat & tidy. if you don’t have a bed, fold up your blankets & put them in a closet or something along those lines

• take a shower, not a bath. it’s best to keep you a little active right now. sit down if you need to. shampoo your roots, and condition your ends. shave if that’s your thing, use a body scrub, get a shower steamer tab, (it’s like an aromtheraphy tablet you put by the water and it releases essential oils into the air) etc

• wash your face. whether you have an extensive, fancy, routine or just a plain bar of soap. either are cool. make sure whatever your using isn’t scented (foaming soap can be bad for your skin too)

• put on clean clothes

• paint your nails (boys & girls can both do this! if you don’t like it, don’t do it. if you’re afraid family, etc, will see, paint your toenails instead. Or do a clear coat to make you regular fingernails shiny)

• if you live in a somewhat safe area, take a walk. around dawn is good because it’s cool & there aren’t many people. dusk is a good time too, to see the sunset. as long as you don’t travel too far and your streets are well lit.

• go to a gas station and pick up your favorite treat :)

• after you get whatever done today, put on some comfy socks, and loose clothes. Just chill and watch a good show you like. something like the office, or parks n rec, a chill show you’re familiar with that you can binge watch

• talk to someone. anyone. whether it’s the person working at 7/11, your fish, grandma, or a friend, whatever. don’t isolate yourself. it’s good to take time for yourself! but try to take baby steps back to socialization.

•let your mind rest. meditate, read a book and listen to nature, etc

•open all the windows in your house in the morning

this isn’t going to “cure you”. but when you are active, it really helps. jump starts your system, you feel more accomplished and motivated, and it’s proven that the more you push yourself in a healthy way, you feel better. while I was in the hospital they said doing stuff like this will help you recover more.

Today's aesthetic is anti traumacore

So basically I feel really lesbian today and this is what i did with that feeling