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Okayhh here is another nudie Sherlock calendar - BUY IT ON REDBUBBLE
I got a lot of messages this month and last month asking if I was planning on making another sexy Sherlock calendar and at first I was like āno I donāt think soā but then I was like āidk I donāt really have timeā and then suddenly I was like āokay fuck Iāll do it but I basically have to draw it all in two daysā and so thatās what happened Iām so sorry.Ā
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DONāT TAKE THIS TO SIGNINGS OR SEND IT/EMAIL IT TO PEOPLE CONNECTED TO THE SHOW, THIS IS NOT ANYTHING THEY WOULD BE INTERESTED IN SEEING OR ANYTHING IāM INTERESTED IN THEM SEEING, IāM SO SERIOUS.
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..so if I wanted to try to be me and a 100% just me, no matter who is still in my life down the line I will at least be happy with who I turned out to be. and if anybody likes that and if anybody wants to join me in loving who I am,Ā ācause I know I will be loving who I am, more power toĀ āem. (x)
How to Stand up for Yourself
1. Decide to stop being a doormat, a people pleaser or someone who gets pushed around.
2. Start believing in yourself. Work on developing your self-confidence, and setting achievable and meaningful goals. Decide tiy wonāt be a clone of everyone else.
3. Develop a positive attitude. If youāre optimistic and expect to succeed ā instead of being a victim or someone who gets used - then others will treat you with respect and dignity. In many ways, we create what we expect.
4. Get help for the wounds and the damage from your past. Often people whoāve been wounded and hurt by other people find it hard to develop inner confidence and pride. But there is help available and you can have a different life.
5. Trust your instincts. Not everyone is kind or a healthy influence. If you start to feel uncomfortable then trust your inner feelings and donāt allow that person to be part of your life.
6. Learn to be assertive. Being assertive is a skill ā and itās a skill you can acquire. It involves being able to say whatās on your mind ā or to say ānoā if you want to ā while sounding confident.
7. Be willing to defend yourself or speak your mind. You have a right to your opinions and your personal points of view āso practise speaking up in a calm, confident way.
8. Pay attention to your body language. We communicate much more through our non-verbal cues than the actual words when we use weāre speaking to others ā so use your body language to convey a sense of pride. That is, stand up straight, make eye contact and use a warm, but steady, voice.
