Gender Norms Suck - Tumblr Posts

This may just be me but do any other nonbinary/ trans folk sometimes just hate the fact that everyone else gets to ignore gender norms except you and the second you do ignore them, you’re almost assured to never get perceived as nonbinary/trans enough to be nonbinary/trans (especially if you’re fat and/or a person of color)? Like if you’re cis, going against gender norms is this great achievement and you’re so cool. If you’re under the trans umbrella tho, going against the gender norms set for you means at best people having free reign to misgender you without ever having to feel bad and at worst, it leads to actual physically harm against you.