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My asexual sex demon

Thinking about how Kazimier falls under the Asexual spectrum, which is surprising to some since the character has a lot of sex in my story/is a sex demon.

For most of the book, he's not getting intimate because he wants to, necessarily. It's not exactly noncon, either. It's just.. food. Incubi in my world aren't able to consume regular food once they come into their powers, they survive on lust. He's gone through periods of his life cursing his heritage, angry at that persistent hunger, ignoring it in ways that only a neurodivergant can understand (here's your reminder to drink or eat something, dear reader). He'd rather be untouched, untangled, left to his thoughts. But instead of pain in his stomach it's the strain in his pants that tears him away. When he finally feeds he does so ravenously, with indulgence and intensity that would make anyone believe that he revels in being a sexual demon. Once it's over, so is his interest in it, sexual relief bringing a mental relief that he's got several days until he has to entangle himself in someone else's pleasure once more.

I guess I'm saying that sexuality is multifaceted, and there's a lot of nuance to it. Hypersexuality and asexuality can be found in the same person without cheapening the experiences of those who only identify with one or the other or neither. And like, it's as ok to have ace characters have sex and be gritty self-proclaimed sluts (like Kazimier) as it is to write ace characters who never have sex or sexual urges (which I also have in my story).

Eeeeverything is a 3d spectrum, yall.