Fuck Sysmeds - Tumblr Posts
using the term plural but being anti-endo is like using neurodivergent and hating people on that spectrum
The fact that there are people older than me who are exclusionists is so embarrassing. Let that sink in: there are people who are older than me, an eighteen year old, having temper tantrums online about somebody else's existence. πππ
Shoutout to DID systems who aren't anti endo.
Shoutout to disordered systems in general who don't think their experience is the only valid system experience.
It sucks that there are so many anti endos in the traumagenic tag. Even though we've mostly distanced ourselves from the 'endo' origin term, it's still frustrating to see so much hostility towards others who happen to have different system experiences.
It's so much easier to just be chill about things like endogenic systems, I truly don't understand why someone would waste their time screaming about something they won't bother to understand.
I will forever believe that sysmedicalism is so much more harmful than a plushiegenic endo system or whatever. One is just trying to live and the other is policing systems and putting them into boxes, dismissing 'actual' systems with DID etc because they aren't exactly like them, etc
This is a reminder (for myself mostly) that trying to reason with sysmeds is a waste of time. Sure there are some who are willing to listen, but a lot of them (or at least it feels like a lot) are so far gone and consumed by blind hatred that you're just hurting yourself by interacting.
Also former sysmeds are awesome; you've broken out of the echo chamber and have grown so much. I'm proud of you, that is no easy feat... it feels so much easier in the moment to wall yourself off, festering in your hate for those who seem to have things better ("surely they're faking MY condition!"), but you didn't. That takes a lot of maturity.