Could You Please Continue Your Lilith Series With Lilith In The 4th House? Your Blog Is Really Good,

Could you please continue your lilith series with lilith in the 4th house? Your blog is really good, all your observations for my placements and were 100% correct 🎉

Hey cutie🥳

Ofcourse I'd be more than happy to help you out<3 It has been a while since I did a Lilith in the houses culture post hehe 🌞

Lilith in the 4th house🌌

For my full Lilith in the houses series, click here

TW: mention of s*lf harm and trauma.

The 4H - ruled by the Moon(Cancer) talks a lot about the same sex parent, reflects the home setting, family life and ultimately, the womb.

The 4H is the foundation of our personality operations, since without a place to stand emotionally, the personality does not function properly.

Lilith, having air as her element, combining with her fiery approach, is not as joyful here as she would be in other houses. The 4H, with waterty and maternal influences from Cancer, makes Lilith uncomfortable to a degree here as the house forces Lilith to look back to her origin, to recall the beginning of time.

In fact, many astrologers argued that having Lilith in the 4H is one of the hardest houses Lilith can be in. Personally I believe that trials and errors make a willful person, as long as 4H Lilith natives learn how to work with their darker sides, there shouldn't be any issues at all🖤

Lilith here will talks to you about trauma and repression relating to your ancestors and your capacity to dig into the past to uncover the origins of your being.

The natives mother/mother figure or parental figure in general could have been very much of a Lilith. She'd rather indulge in sex, lust, parties, alcohol or drugs or any additive patterns of behaviour rather than providing the native a stable home.

^ or 4H Lilith could have felt that this was the environment they grew up in. Their root or origin are not necessarily ideal, they grew up feeling alone and constrained yet also felt unseen and invisible.

4H Lilith usually don't like talking about their family, they consider it as a very sensitive topic for them and they keep a lot of painful memories about their childhood home to themselves.

These individuals felt that their childhood was ripped away. They had no choice but to grow up. They may have also become very numb in general, if badly aspected, this can even indicate self-harm tendencies and a hopeless search for their true "home" out in the world and in people.

Like I've said, traumatic experiences create the most vulnerable yet also create the strongest people. These native can be surprisingly business-oriented or very focus on their career, very much like the 10H Lilith, they use material as a way to fill the empty hole inside them.

I'm not going to lie. Harsh aspects can indicate extremely complicated relationship with parental figures. Would go even as far as indicating abusive patterns. Harder ones can suggest that the natives witnessed one of their parents in the act of abuse or they could have experienced it first hand.

They fall for either the fearless type of people, ones thats strong enough to protect them OR they'd take on the role of the nurturer (the moon) and seek for ones who they deem as damaged because they sense the familiarity between. they'd rather heal others than their own wounds.

may work pretty young, they just needed some kind of an escape away from their family/childhood home.

this placements indicate wounds regarding one's origins, could have been adopted or raised by someone else who are not their birth parents. if this is true, the native have a deep need to understand where they come from yet they felt as if they were rejected since the beginning of time.

lost souls. they just need something or someone that they feel safe with. but due to their natural detached nature and spectacular social abilities, they attract all kind of people, but they'll put people through tests to see if they're worthy of their time.

the kind of people that will leave you before you could leave them. they fear abandonment and rejection to their core.

4H Lilith suggests loss of a family member, this contributes to their younger self during the development phase. Complex relationships with deaths. might even suggest an early birth or issues while during their mother's pregnancy.

Lilith 4H gives off very similar energy like Lilith 7H, but they're more fixated on the idea of the fallen angel who was left behind.

Issues with intimacy. Crave it but fear it. They're simply not used to it and if no one has yet teach them compassions and utmost loyalty they would not understand the concept well. Can become very generous with their partners in term of materials to "make up" for their lack of attention, air of detachment and carelessness.

Their partners are drawn to their authentic energy, these people go out to the world and show their more stable and harmonious aspects yet kept their chaotic, suppressive pain very deep down.

Issues showing their nurturing side if badly aspected, they may not be able to tap into their more maternal side if they have hard aspects.

Aloof. if there are no socialable aspects can have a harder time understanding deeper connections, feel as if it's hard to confide in people.

Power issues. Might get very annoyed when people try to go on a power trip to make a point. It's like kinda triggering for them some times.

Vague sense of belonging. Never rly feel "at home"(~very similar to 10H Lilith) but they also are more prone to moving constantly too. Might even want to emigrate to another country.

they really get scared of by intimacy. its like sometimes when people open up to them all of the sudden (somehow this happens often), they get freaked out with this new dynamic.

^ this probably happens because people can sense that they've been through a lot, as if nothing can surprise them anymore, hence they don't feel judged sharing their feelings with these 4H Lilith

sometimes they trust their instincts and randomly overshare their personal trauma and issues to a complete stranger. they enjoy being able to freely open up without any baggage.

Believe it or not, they have the ability to detach during sex. This can even be explained by the complexity of their early childhood. if their lilith square the native sun, they can strongly reject their assertive side and chose to be very secretive with their sex life.

Lilith is in a water house at the end of the day. These natives are naturally intuitive, but they can even go as far as finding the reasons behind others actions. They understand why people react the way they do.

Mysterious and moody sometimes. Sex with them feels as if you're embracing the moon, their energy is so lustful yet they seem so numb? It's like their will always be one side of them that you can't see, and the more that you try to figure them out without their permission, the more they pull away.

Lots and lots of emotional baggage, ones that you probably can't handle or imagine. Yet they carry this with them til the very end and it is this that made them stronger.

They are that type of people that may cut off every family member the second they turn legal. When younger it seems like they were always renewing themselves and finding a new, temporary home.

They act like they simply grow out of people. But in reality they never truly did. They just cut them off and put the memories away in a small safe, one that sometimes when they're alone, they will take these memories out and look at them.

Personally I think 4H natives need someone who they can show their more playful, childish and innocent side. The side in which they have buried so deep down that they forgot they once were, their partners have to be understanding of their polarizing nature and bad habits of retreating when problems surfaced. The child in them never left and they need someone to create enough stability and intimacy as well as trust so they can be vulnerable.

Plutonians/Mars dominant or Aries/Scorpio dominant people have this effect on them like no others. They may strongly dislike them or find themselves gravitate towards these individuals subconsciously.

They care about their reputation. So they'd work hard for it. Would also keep themselves busy all the time too!

Here are a few lines I drafted up for Lilith in 4H, I have a lot of friends with this placement as I'm a cancer sun with Lilith 7H haha, but while they experience a lot of hardships, I have to acknowledge how they're one of the most well-rounded people i know:) Lemme know if you have any more qs boo!

Hope this helps🥳

love,

saint jenx🥀

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mother and daughter

another hater take is that ned is a better politician than tywin bc tywin broke ~the social contract~ so badly that now no one trusts the social contract anymore and it means his family’s allies are gonna jump ship the moment they find someone less cartoonishly evil, and the lannisters will be left with no one but the most hated, shitty ass people in westeros as allies by the time the war over westeros part 2 starts. also can u call someone a good politician if they’re so hated their own kid mercs them.

meanwhile ned managed to keep AN ENTIRE TREASONOUS CONSPIRACY so under the radar that no one even SUSPECTS jon is lyanna’s son AND most of the north is still fairly willing to crown a stark any stark based off of “well ned was a solid guy and we need the boltons the fuck out of here” alone! it turns out when you spend all your time letting your kids know you hate them for who they are and commit war crimes at the slightest provocation, it makes people think you’re kind of a dickhead! everyone knows the lannisters are fucking but no one knows about jon and that’s ned’s power!

Hi !! 💙I’m not sure if you made a post about this already and i just couldn’t find it, but could you please talk about venus in water signs ? Thank you !💙🧜‍♀️

Hey love,

Absolutely yes it's about time I finish this unexpected mini series haha

— Cancer Venus🌊

Cancer Venus people to me is some of the most emotionally intelligent people on earth. They have a way with providing safe space like no others and the more you get to know them, the more you'll realize how ambitious they actually are, how much they willing to go through to achieve stability and harmony. For that particular reason, they would like to be with someone that's on the same level as them. Someone who shares similar ideas about monetary values and their need for security. They love hard working people and more than anyone they would not hesitate to simp for those that have a passion for life and a large-than-life attitude. Cancer Venus is an attentive lover but also a serious one. They're the type that will get back at you for doing them wrong but if they truly love you, they could never do you dirty despite how many times you shatter their heart into a million pieces. Play daddy issues by the neighbourhood on repeat for days kinda love. With them you get the taste of a love that will never leave. The kind of love that lingers and just grow on you. Cancer Venus once heartless can be the scariest people on this earth, they can be cut-throat, perhaps even dismissive once they decided they had enough. But if you prove yourself worthy, every time you look in their eyes there shall be nothing but unconditional love and so much sentiments. Such nostalgic people. Love the smallest thing about you. A Cancer Venus sees everything too. They see how you would adjust the temperature when you can tell they're cold, how you do things without them asking and how you take care of them and defend them even when they're not present. They see everything and they take them all in.

— Scorpio Venus🌊

Scorpio Venus love like they never have enough. They have such a bad rep for all these intensity but I promise you once you have a taste of what it's like to be loved by them, you'll never want to leave their side. Truest ride or die, you know they love you when their eyes burn for your pain and their heart burns for your touches. The type to stick with you til the very end once they decided you have everything they need. Excitement, intensity, passion but also vulnerability. Stubborn lovers, they shall accept nothing less than that. Scorpio Venus people fear vulnerability more than anything yet they deeply value it and once you give them the chance to see you at your weakest, they will never ever stop being by your side. For them to stop loving someone will take years. They will struggle a lot when younger since not everyone has the mentality they possess, the mentality where they truly know that they would go to the moon and back for their partner. Their emotions are anything but mediocre. Just like their minds. The most protective people on this earth, yet they would naturally expect you to understand this. A Scorpio Venus would never bow down and beg for anything. You need to know your worth well before entering a relationship with a Scorpio Venus. Intense but sincere and loyal partners, they will tell you the darkest drawer of their past and would expect you to tell them yours. There should be no secret between you guys. If there is, there would always be an invisible wall and you shall never fully understand the purest form of their love. Possessive. Would go to war for you since they know you'd do the same. Seeing them at their worst and most honest self is not something people get to, so you shall adore them and heal them like the wounded angels they are, you shall protect and defend them like the person they had spent all this time looking for. Nothing else matters like you do.

— Pisces Venus🌊

I have been talking about unconditional love a lot with some of the signs here. That doesn't mean I think the others aren't capable of it, but rather that it takes more for them to reach that level of intimacy. For Pisces Venus, I can't seem to form a word that best fit them. Unconditional love merely describes what they can give out to their partner. Pisces Venus not only are sacrificing, but they're deep and are blind in love. Venus is exalted in Pisces and this is the placement where Venus deeper qualities would shine the most. Idealistic and opinionated, a Pisces Venus is highly intelligent and is always one step ahead. They are some of the most environmentally sensitive people and they feel ranges of emotions so well they can use it to their advantage. For them, I see a lover thats brave, brave to love and to show the world, I see a lover that can make them laugh but can also lay down and watch the stars with them. For them, I see love and laughter in combined. They fall for the people that know how to make them giggle, know how to make them cry and know how to make them yearn for warmth. Pisces Venus is very sacrificial, very similar to Scorpio Venus in a way yet they don't focus much on passion but rather pure love. Their way of love is how I think we should treat our soulmates. Tender yet complex and honest. The way a Pisces Venus loves you will make you feel that you're capable of doing things you never knew. When with them, everything about you shines. Their silliest moment feel so familiar and comforting. With a Pisces Venus, be ready to face the you at your highest. Yet don't let that high consume you but focus on you and them and the future you have together. If a Pisces Venus sees that you're losing yourself, they will take a step back and hope that you'll notice, so you can turn around and start chasing them again. Don't make them wait. They only come once in a life time. Don't let them slip away.

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