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— A complete guide on enabling the dominant energy in your chart

be sure to check the post below out first🤍

🕊how to find dominant elements/modes/planets/signs

Hey gorgeous, it’s Jenx here! I’m back with one of the most requested post haha since I always tell you guys to “learn how to work with your energy” but I know that thats not good enough:) So today, per your requests, I present you a *5 hours long* post on perhaps everything yall need to know to enable the dominant energy in your chart!🥰

The Elements

Fire —

Fire is associated with Intuition. Therefore they should maintain a high level of enthusiasm. The element of fire would necessitate a lot of creative practice. This state of being is necessary for them to remain comfortable and safe. Fire dominant people tend to find themselves excelled in the creative areas of work, where they are able to expand by being passionate, entertaining, creative and loving. Fire is the physical, active aspect of human existence. With their courage, daring, and ability to march onward, they are the beating heart of humanity. Fire can be self-absorbed yet they burst with enthusiasm for both work and play. Those who are born with a fire dominant chart tend to have a fearless spirit and see it as their mission to break new ground, to meet new people, and to learn new, creative things in life. They should work in industries related to fire or electricity, such as energy and chemical, optics and electricity, information technology and computer, solar energy, oil and gas, hotel and catering, hairdressing and beauty, photography, film and television, entertainment, and fire-related work.

Earth —

Often associated with Sensation. Earth is also the heaviest and most solid element. These individuals are essentially nature’s practical, tangible manifestations. They are what we refer to as strong or actual, and people born under the influence of the dominant earth have those qualities as part of their basic makeup. Earth people thrive in environments where they can use their head and can create actual values and groundings. They may be fantastic with buildings, creating, organizing. Their life’s work will include constructing, founding, influencing, or achieving something significant and tangible in life, whether it is a physical structure or a corporation. They thrive in earth-related industries such as land and agriculture, real estate and construction, building materials, geology and mining, jewelry and jade, urban planning, land management, and so on. Building materials, pottery, porcelain, and glass are also suitable if fire and earth are their strong suits.

Air —

Air is associated with Thinking. People who have air as their dominant are social and mental beings who thrive on the exchange of ideas and knowledge that we call human relations. Those born under the heavy influence of air have a responsibility to know and learn about the environment, as well as to share the information with others. They’re the big brains of society, dealing with everything from data to statistics. If Air decides to stay, the workplace will thrive, but they may find their creative energy depleted by the daily grind. Air thrives when given the freedom to set her own pace and hours, which is why they frequently start their own businesses or work freelance. Careers include: entrepreneur, model, interior designer, makeup artist, photographer, event planner, and so on.

Water —

This element is associated with Feelings. These individuals embody human nature’s sympathetic, emotional side, with their instinct for compassion and nurturing. Water weeps for the sorrows of the earth and rejoices in the joys of life, and they usually have a unique understanding of other people’s emotions. They’re also empathetic and inventive, tapping into the vast subconscious realm of human suspicions, fears, and desires. They may work well on areas that include the mind and the heart. These people will also benefit from choosing industries related to water or flowing, such as water conservation and aquaculture, refrigeration and fresh-keeping, navigation and shipping, transportation and logistics, commercial trade, intermediary & media, wholesale & marketing, drinking water & bathing, tourism and driving, journalist, information, and network.

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Could you please continue your lilith series with lilith in the 4th house? Your blog is really good, all your observations for my placements and were 100% correct 🎉

Hey cutie🥳

Ofcourse I'd be more than happy to help you out<3 It has been a while since I did a Lilith in the houses culture post hehe 🌞

Lilith in the 4th house🌌

For my full Lilith in the houses series, click here

TW: mention of s*lf harm and trauma.

The 4H - ruled by the Moon(Cancer) talks a lot about the same sex parent, reflects the home setting, family life and ultimately, the womb.

The 4H is the foundation of our personality operations, since without a place to stand emotionally, the personality does not function properly.

Lilith, having air as her element, combining with her fiery approach, is not as joyful here as she would be in other houses. The 4H, with waterty and maternal influences from Cancer, makes Lilith uncomfortable to a degree here as the house forces Lilith to look back to her origin, to recall the beginning of time.

In fact, many astrologers argued that having Lilith in the 4H is one of the hardest houses Lilith can be in. Personally I believe that trials and errors make a willful person, as long as 4H Lilith natives learn how to work with their darker sides, there shouldn't be any issues at all🖤

Lilith here will talks to you about trauma and repression relating to your ancestors and your capacity to dig into the past to uncover the origins of your being.

The natives mother/mother figure or parental figure in general could have been very much of a Lilith. She'd rather indulge in sex, lust, parties, alcohol or drugs or any additive patterns of behaviour rather than providing the native a stable home.

^ or 4H Lilith could have felt that this was the environment they grew up in. Their root or origin are not necessarily ideal, they grew up feeling alone and constrained yet also felt unseen and invisible.

4H Lilith usually don't like talking about their family, they consider it as a very sensitive topic for them and they keep a lot of painful memories about their childhood home to themselves.

These individuals felt that their childhood was ripped away. They had no choice but to grow up. They may have also become very numb in general, if badly aspected, this can even indicate self-harm tendencies and a hopeless search for their true "home" out in the world and in people.

Like I've said, traumatic experiences create the most vulnerable yet also create the strongest people. These native can be surprisingly business-oriented or very focus on their career, very much like the 10H Lilith, they use material as a way to fill the empty hole inside them.

I'm not going to lie. Harsh aspects can indicate extremely complicated relationship with parental figures. Would go even as far as indicating abusive patterns. Harder ones can suggest that the natives witnessed one of their parents in the act of abuse or they could have experienced it first hand.

They fall for either the fearless type of people, ones thats strong enough to protect them OR they'd take on the role of the nurturer (the moon) and seek for ones who they deem as damaged because they sense the familiarity between. they'd rather heal others than their own wounds.

may work pretty young, they just needed some kind of an escape away from their family/childhood home.

this placements indicate wounds regarding one's origins, could have been adopted or raised by someone else who are not their birth parents. if this is true, the native have a deep need to understand where they come from yet they felt as if they were rejected since the beginning of time.

lost souls. they just need something or someone that they feel safe with. but due to their natural detached nature and spectacular social abilities, they attract all kind of people, but they'll put people through tests to see if they're worthy of their time.

the kind of people that will leave you before you could leave them. they fear abandonment and rejection to their core.

4H Lilith suggests loss of a family member, this contributes to their younger self during the development phase. Complex relationships with deaths. might even suggest an early birth or issues while during their mother's pregnancy.

Lilith 4H gives off very similar energy like Lilith 7H, but they're more fixated on the idea of the fallen angel who was left behind.

Issues with intimacy. Crave it but fear it. They're simply not used to it and if no one has yet teach them compassions and utmost loyalty they would not understand the concept well. Can become very generous with their partners in term of materials to "make up" for their lack of attention, air of detachment and carelessness.

Their partners are drawn to their authentic energy, these people go out to the world and show their more stable and harmonious aspects yet kept their chaotic, suppressive pain very deep down.

Issues showing their nurturing side if badly aspected, they may not be able to tap into their more maternal side if they have hard aspects.

Aloof. if there are no socialable aspects can have a harder time understanding deeper connections, feel as if it's hard to confide in people.

Power issues. Might get very annoyed when people try to go on a power trip to make a point. It's like kinda triggering for them some times.

Vague sense of belonging. Never rly feel "at home"(~very similar to 10H Lilith) but they also are more prone to moving constantly too. Might even want to emigrate to another country.

they really get scared of by intimacy. its like sometimes when people open up to them all of the sudden (somehow this happens often), they get freaked out with this new dynamic.

^ this probably happens because people can sense that they've been through a lot, as if nothing can surprise them anymore, hence they don't feel judged sharing their feelings with these 4H Lilith

sometimes they trust their instincts and randomly overshare their personal trauma and issues to a complete stranger. they enjoy being able to freely open up without any baggage.

Believe it or not, they have the ability to detach during sex. This can even be explained by the complexity of their early childhood. if their lilith square the native sun, they can strongly reject their assertive side and chose to be very secretive with their sex life.

Lilith is in a water house at the end of the day. These natives are naturally intuitive, but they can even go as far as finding the reasons behind others actions. They understand why people react the way they do.

Mysterious and moody sometimes. Sex with them feels as if you're embracing the moon, their energy is so lustful yet they seem so numb? It's like their will always be one side of them that you can't see, and the more that you try to figure them out without their permission, the more they pull away.

Lots and lots of emotional baggage, ones that you probably can't handle or imagine. Yet they carry this with them til the very end and it is this that made them stronger.

They are that type of people that may cut off every family member the second they turn legal. When younger it seems like they were always renewing themselves and finding a new, temporary home.

They act like they simply grow out of people. But in reality they never truly did. They just cut them off and put the memories away in a small safe, one that sometimes when they're alone, they will take these memories out and look at them.

Personally I think 4H natives need someone who they can show their more playful, childish and innocent side. The side in which they have buried so deep down that they forgot they once were, their partners have to be understanding of their polarizing nature and bad habits of retreating when problems surfaced. The child in them never left and they need someone to create enough stability and intimacy as well as trust so they can be vulnerable.

Plutonians/Mars dominant or Aries/Scorpio dominant people have this effect on them like no others. They may strongly dislike them or find themselves gravitate towards these individuals subconsciously.

They care about their reputation. So they'd work hard for it. Would also keep themselves busy all the time too!

Here are a few lines I drafted up for Lilith in 4H, I have a lot of friends with this placement as I'm a cancer sun with Lilith 7H haha, but while they experience a lot of hardships, I have to acknowledge how they're one of the most well-rounded people i know:) Lemme know if you have any more qs boo!

Hope this helps🥳

love,

saint jenx🥀

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aries- there could be a lot of anger when people with this placement argues, even if they're not angry, they sound angry. when you express your frustrations through words, you could be very confrontational. also, there could be many cuss words lol. another thing i can see with someone with this placement is that they can catch an attitude pretty easily. they're also very quick with responses and comebacks. they could be the type to lead the argument and also being impulsive with their words. sometimes this can really hurt others or you, by damaging relationships with your words. you may also make decisions on a whim

taurus- you could start off calm, then gradually get more aggressive. these individuals may not worry about getting the last word, or being the most argumentative, but they care about being truthful. they also could speak slower, regardless of wether they’re arguing or not. they take their time with what they’re saying, and the need a minute to process their thoughts. also, even if they are really understanding of what you’re saying, they could come off as stubborn. when they stating their point, they could just seem like they are not listening even when they are. they also can make better listeners than speakers, but it’s hard to make them change their mind

gemini- when these individuals argue they could use smarter words or bigger words to prove their point. they could also take it very unserious lol. they may not necessarily find the argument funny, but they try to be lighthearted. also, they are quick with their words and thought process. they bounce off words very easily, and they often have a lot to say. they want to argue with logic, not their emotions, and they’re going to tell you the logical side of things. they may be a little childish about things, or not take it as seriously as you would hope, and their words could also be persuasive

cancer- there could definitely be a lot of emotions behind what they say, and everything they say may not be logical. their way with words could definitely persuade you though. when they argue, they could get emotional, or at least sound like they are getting emotional. there could also be points that they forget to mention because they left it in their subconscious mind. it’s hard for them to make decisions without it being emotion based. also, they could come off as emotionally manipulative, even if they’re not trying to be. they are good at expressing empathy and sympathy though

leo- there’s a lot of passion when these people argue. they can have a naturally loud voice, but when they are arguing it can definitely get louder. also they can take control of the argument, like they’re the one who’s controlling which way the argument goes if that makes sense. they can also be quite bold with what they say, wether is be bold in the sense that you never expected them to say that or bold as in they are confrontational. they could also have a lot of emotion in their voice, and a powerful voice at that.

virgo- these individuals want to argue with logic and logic only. they don’t really care to get into the emotional side, maybe after the argument is done, but not during. they have an organized way of bringing up information as well. for example, if the argument is about multiple things that bother them, they might go through the list in chronological order, instead of just saying anything. i could also see that these individuals may ramble. their voice could also be nonchalant, even if they aren’t feeling nonchalant. these people could also really not enjoy arguing, but they will if they have to

libra- these people want the argument to be balanced, and lead to peace. they don’t want to argue or start conflict, without there being some kind of resolution. they want to be heard just as much as they would like to listen to the other side of the argument. their voice could be in a calm tone, and they could also have a lot to say. they might even try to charm their way out of the issue lol. i can also see that some people with this placement might have a difficult time seeing another persons point of view if they have other placements that could influence that.

scorpio- their words could hold a lot of meaning to you, like their words could make or break someone if that makes sense. when these people argue it can get destructive fast. they can go from being fine to saying words that cut deep. these individuals may not say everything that’s on their mind and they could honestly keep a lot of things to their self, but when they snap, they can snap hard. i could also see that, people with this placement could get emotional, maybe not easily or maybe they won’t express it at first, but they feel things deep. also, they may know exactly what your going to say next because they’re readers, like body linguistics lol. they’re also intuitive and they will be very hurt or upset if you lie to them

sagittarius- talk about the king/queen of arguing. they literally represent the higher mind, law, debate, education, learning, etc. they are bringing facts and nothing but facts. it’s hard to change a sagittarius mercury’s mind once it’s been made. they could get very passionate and start talking boldly and loudly which can make them come off angrily, although they may not be. they could also be impulsive with the things they do or say. they are also optimistic people, they could take arguments as a learning experience instead of something to regret. this could also be hard to express though, as sagittarius and gemini (gemini is ruled by mercury) are opposites. so, this may not be the most comfortable placement

capricorn- these people are quite serious when they argue, nothing is a laughing matter to them. they also may struggle with speaking their mind, and they could be more of the listening type than the arguing type. these people could also ramble quite a bit before getting to the point. they restrict their selves from saying what they have to say, but once it’s out it’s out. there could be a difficulty expressing what they’re genuinely feeling during the argument. they don’t care to be loud, they would like to be heard when speaking though. their voices can go from soft to assertive as well. i can see that they may also use words that are exactly what they mean, despite them struggling to communicate their thoughts

aquarius- individuals with this placements could be hard to read while arguing. they may be detached, distant, and unexpressive with their demeanor. when arguing, they could be quiet at first, but have a lot to say. the words they use could also be long, or big, or even words that are rarely used. if they don’t tell you how they feel now, they could tell you through text or calls. the way they would like to navigate the argument though, is through finding a solution, and it may be creative in some way. like something you would’ve never thought of. what they say or the way they react may also be unpredictable. maybe you didn’t expect them to snap, or even get a little emotional

pisces- these people could have many things that will not be said. they don’t enjoy arguing and confrontation, for the main reason being that they empathize and can be susceptible to agreeing even if they really don’t. these individuals could want to cry quite fast, or at least get emotional fast. they may get angry, but if they do it will be expressed passive aggressively. there could be things they might forget to mention, mainly because it’s on in this unconscious or subconscious mind. they may also be secretive, when you don’t expect it, they could tell you something that you didn’t know they knew. they’re also intuitive so they could know when you are lying or at least not telling the full truth. when expressing their thoughts though, their emotions are pretty clear