Being A Guy In The Queer Community Is Not For The Weak.

being a guy in the queer community is not for the weak.

“When the handle has snapped off the basket that held all your eggs…” gone girl tier monologue

genuinely so funny to me how Emily fr just ripped off the whole flag so now her version - which is literally just flipped, how unoriginal - is seen as THE lesbian flag. she's like some lesbian messiah to people for creating THE flag, and it's not even her design. you can't just flip someone else's creation and call it your own💀

@butchspace I loooooove your orange butch flag. and i thought it’d be cool to splice together the lipstick lesbian & orange butch flag. as well as add the More Color More Pride stripes.

and mod T from butchspace suggested a great idea of having the white stripe symbolize those who dont ID as femme or butch.

 i think this combo would be a great flag for the general lesbian community. i always see the lipstick femme flag used as the default for the lesbian community on tumblr. which is an act that treats femininity as the default, and makes butches feel left out and ignored.

gonna start saying 'DNI if you think lesbians are real'/j

'dni if you think mspec lesbians exist' oops sorry! I'll go back to being mothman or whatever. Oooo

I'm intersex, and I do not care is someone wants to use xenoAGABs. It's not that serious. If you resonate with something like assigned twig at birth or whatever it's none of my business, do what feels right.

Hey I’m new here and I have a question. So, I’ve heard of these things called ‘xeno AGABs’ and I really identify with them, they feel important to my identity but I’ve seen some people say that they’re wrong/intersexist. I’ve also seen people say that they don’t matter and they’re fine. Is it alright if I use them in good faith? -Chronic

my mom loves to lie and like she always swears she was NEVER homophobic or anything to me as a child “i even have a gay work friend” but a really funny memory resurfaced recently where i asked if i could use birthday money i had to buy a rainbow flag when i was like ??? 7?? because i LOVED rainbows. and she said no that means something Evil and god will hate you . so what did i do. but ask my grandmom for a rainbow sweater for christmas and proceed to only wear that sweater for three years when it got cold because i didnt like the idea that god hated colors and i wanted to challenge him