Gonna Start Saying 'DNI If You Think Lesbians Are Real'/j

gonna start saying 'DNI if you think lesbians are real'/j

'dni if you think mspec lesbians exist' oops sorry! I'll go back to being mothman or whatever. Oooo

lesbians who say "fuck terfs <3" and then immediately say "trans mascs, men and trans women who are also men can't be butches/lesbians/dykes" and "i'm a lesbian, men dni" and also viciously try to remove trans women who are also men, transmascs & men from lesbian, sapphic and dyke spaces...

hey guess what: you're terfs. try again.

If you liked:

"women are my favorite guy"

Consider:

Supporting and accommodating multi-gendered people :)

Am the one who's noticed how fucking weird people get about transmasc bottom surgery?

There's a ridiculous amount of body shaming and fear mongering about phalloplasty and metoidioplasty and I feel like I'm the only one who ever talks about it. The constant "well it's not a real penis/it's not a cis penis/ect" drives me nuts.

Especially when someone is talking about how they WANT bottom surgery and someone butts in like "l just don't think it fits my ✨aesthetic✨" as if anyone asked how much they hate phallo/metoidio

Have you noticed this?? Please tell me you have, I can't be the only one who finds it weird. It's actually incredibly disheartening as someone who wants metoidio to constantly see. If I said half the shit I see said about phallo/metoidio, about vaginoplasty instead people would lose it

I don't know how the hell I missed this message, but it's possible I saw it and didn't know how to reply at the time (I also have the tendency to have things slip my mind if I don't address it quickly enough). regardless, I have indeed noticed the behavior you're referring to. I, myself, have been affected by the rampant fearmongering around phallo/metoidio to the point that it affects my desire to get bottom surgery. That fucking sucks. I wish people could stop making those of us with bottom dysphoria feel like we'll never get a sufficient solution to the problem.

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I think one of the biggest drivers in the "transandrophobia discourse" is that the women/transfems who are currently going after transmascs, belive that men have some inherent qualities. The flavor changes depending on who is talking, but it's always one of them: bioessencialism, genderessencialism, sexessencialism, ect.

Newsflash: feminism includes everyone and strives to free ALL from these societal systems. As soon as you exclude literally anyone, you're not a feminits anymore. Even if that group is cis, white, hetero, able-bodied, upperclass men. They are not opressed by this system, but they sure are affected! And need to be included in femminist discussion. Both about their struggles with patriarchy and capitalism AND about preventative measures for rape, SA, sexism, ect. (How they cause harm through perpetuation of harmfull systems. That they did not put in place. Literally just please give men a space to deconstruct these systems for themselves. They are not gonna 100% see themselves in theory made by women and thats ok. That doesn't make them automatically evil.)