TERF: Noooo You're A Woman!!

TERF: noooo you're a woman!!

My honest reaction: if that's what helps you cope with being attracted to me, bro <3

Gay trans men will be like "Actually it sucks living in a society that expects me to center women both by being one and if I can't be one, by being attracted to them, and I like being around other MLM trans men because we all go through this" and y'all will be like "ACTUAL REAL PROOF THAT CUNTBOY FAGGOTS ARE INCELS THAT HATE WOMEN?!?!"

Like, let's not pretend that this isn't just "gay men hate women so much that they aren't even attracted to them" repackaged.

i love being both agender and a transboy, people get mad at me for no reason. it's so funny

Fr. Once you get over the 'can I be _ if I'm _' attitude, even other queer people will get angry at you because they don't personally understand your identity 💀

xenogenders might be confusing to those who don't use them, especially cis people, but over the years i've come up with a tried and true method for explaining them, or at least some of them.

xenogenders, for those who don't know, are genders that cannot be described in typical gender terms (masculine, feminine, neutral, ect). to explain xenogenders to those with only this perspective, i try to connect common xenogender concepts to binary genders. the examples might seem a little silly/stereotypical, but just bear with me here.

let's say a man really likes trucks, and feels connected to his manhood when he's driving one or engaging with them. there is a xenogender called truckgender: a gender connected to trucks. additionally he feels closer to his manhood when he is listening to metal songs. there is a xenogender called metalgender: a musicagender connected to metal music.

let's also say a woman feels her womanhood strongly when she's called "wife". there is a xenogender called wifelexic: a lexic gender connected to the word "wife". along with this she likes the color pink, and associates her womanhood with it. there is a xenogender called pinkgender: an aesthetigender connected to the color pink.

now just replace "man/woman" with "person" and "manhood/womanhood" with "gender". yes, everyone with a gender probably experiences at least one thing that could be labeled as a xenogender, but it's a persons choice to self label and make it a part of their identity that's the key difference. if you don't want to label something as a xenogender, you don't have to! i have plenty of gender associations i don't label as specific xenogenders.

i hope this made xenogenders a little more understandable! this is by no means an exhaustive explanation, just one i've used to introduce people to some of the base concepts. theres lots more ways to be xenogender!

Seeing both "anti nonbinary lesbians dni" and "pro male lesbians/female gays dni" in the same Do Not Interact post sure is an experience.

It's giving: "Respect nonbinary people and how they want to identify! (unless they have multiple genders yikes yikes)"

I am just beyond done from the multigender hate. It's telling that so many people just view nonbinary as a "third gender".

People with one gender may reblog but don't clown on this post.

Every time I get even remotely harassed for being queer, I become more outwardly queer. I can't be contained. My queerness is like a nuclear biohazard.