Seeing Both "anti Nonbinary Lesbians Dni" And "pro Male Lesbians/female Gays Dni" In The Same Do Not

Seeing both "anti nonbinary lesbians dni" and "pro male lesbians/female gays dni" in the same Do Not Interact post sure is an experience.

It's giving: "Respect nonbinary people and how they want to identify! (unless they have multiple genders yikes yikes)"

I am just beyond done from the multigender hate. It's telling that so many people just view nonbinary as a "third gender".

People with one gender may reblog but don't clown on this post.

No bc how the hell did the trans community go from “TERFs are so dumb. Women can very much oppress marginalized men. It’s honestly very concerning that they think men are demons who need to be put down.” to “TRANS MEN ARE ALWAYS OPPRESSORS WHO NEED TO BE EXCLUDED BC THEY’RE MEN AND TESTOSTERONE WILL MAKE YOU EVIL AND PHALLO IS DUMB BC PENIS BAD AND”

i know people on here are obsessed with saying boygirl and girlboy, but if you do that you need to be level-headed about multigender and intersex people. you have to accept that there are lesbians who are men and gays who are women. if you make jokes about being a girl who's a boy or talk about how much you love boys who are girls, but pull the whole "i'm a lesbian men dni," thing you completely failed and your #boygirl uwu card is revoked.

i don't know how to tell you that gays and lesbians are also involved in the whole "being a girl and a boy" thing, and yes, that includes lesbians who are/partially men and gays who are/partially women. cope. the lesbian, gay, intersex, and trans communities are not about you. you can't profess your love for a group of people and then violently strip away their autonomy and ability to correctly identify themselves.

multigender people have the right to define what our relationships are and what our attraction is like. asserting that lesbians can NEVER be men and gays can NEVER be women is quite literally just re-creating the binary, again. you can't be fixated on creating a binary for terms and people that blatantly choose to step outside of it. stop shoving a square peg into a round hole.

you are not "inconvenient" for using pronouns other than he or she or for having a complex gender, or one other than male or female. you are just being honest about who you are, people who refuse to acknowledge you correctly are the ones being inconvenient.

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i love being both agender and a transboy, people get mad at me for no reason. it's so funny

Fr. Once you get over the 'can I be _ if I'm _' attitude, even other queer people will get angry at you because they don't personally understand your identity 💀