I've Gotten Obsessed With Another Webtoon (help)

I've gotten obsessed with another webtoon (help)

With another interests comes yet another twink to fawn over 😔

Happy pride month! I will be giving you all my pride headcanons

Aphmau: Pansexual

Travis: Bisexual (prefers women)

Lucinda: Lesbian

Garroth: Demiromantic bisexual (has no idea who he prefers)

Zane: Genderfluid straight (sometimes lesbian)

Laurence: Trans ftm, bisexual (prefers men)

Ein: Pansexual

Sasha: Omnisexual poly (prefers women)

Zenix: Bisexual poly (prefers men)

Gene: Panromantic asexual poly

Dante: Bisexual (prefers women)

Hanami (Kawaii~Chan): Trans mtf

Ivy: Bisexual (prefers men)

Canonically queer

Katelyn: Bisexual (prefers men)

Teony: Lesbian

Melissa: Lesbian

I unfortunately don't have creative names for my cats. It's just

hang on I’m trying to see something

don’t tell me the name of your pet, just tell me in the tags the name you call them that’s got nothing to do with their actual name

Wait I did say Rylan in my last ask right? My mind is playing tricks on me and now I'm imagining I said the wrong name

Yeah you did, don't worry

I remember making a post about how anger in recovery is normal (especially after abuse), but I think the reason so many people are afraid of their anger is because of the way anger has been weaponized.

I used to feel almost... proud that I "never got angry" and I thought that made me a more empathetic, understanding, and well-rounded person. What I didn't want to accept was that I did feel anger, but it was wrapped in so many layers of fear, shame, and anxiety that I couldn't properly feel it. I was afraid of anger because it was weaponized against me for years and years - I blamed my mistreatment on the emotions I assumed my abusers felt, rather than blaming their actions and the way they felt it was their right to treat me like that.

I think that's a really common thought process for victims/survivors. I think so many of us are blinded, understandably, by the fear of anger that we prevent ourselves from even considering that we deserve to express ourselves if we are angry. Obviously, this is a generalization, but it's a trend I have noticed within myself and some others and it's important to address it because: you shouldn't be proud of being unable to register or emote how you are doing. Anger is neutral, and it is not inherently harmful. I know we've been hurt, but that doesn't mean we deserve aspects of our humanity to be stolen away. You deserve to feel anger because you are a person, because it is a natural, neutral emotion that we all have. I hope you are able to feel the full breadth of your emotions with no shame or guilt - you deserve love.

summary of Jess’s most recent tiktok for those who haven’t seen it yet / don’t have tiktok / prefer to see things in text formatting :

— she admits to lying to jason when they first met about her age, claiming to be eighteen (18) when she was only fifteen (15). when she turned eighteen (after knowing him for three years online), she confessed to him her real age.

— then follows up by apologising to jason for lying about her age when they first met and allowing him to take the brunt of the fandom’s abuse, stating that the reason they kept jess lying about her age a secret was because they knew her career could potentially end over it.

— she also apologises to the fandom for anyone who worried about her and her relationship, and who were not just believing rumours.

— de-bunks the rumour that jason made jess change the story because he was jealous (this is in relation to the rumour that ein x aphmau was supposed to be canon, but jason was jealous of all of the einmau support and unnaturally forced aarmau.) addresses that the ‘jason made jess change the story’ rumour fuels the rumour that he manipulated her when she was younger.

— also addresses that she changed the story at end of diaries season two because of harassment from garmau fans (specifies “in real life”) and this is the reason why diaries stopped entirely.

— 2016/2017 jess and jason had a stalker. she doesn’t comment much on this other than stating that it has been appropriately handled, and stating their stalker spread a lot of rumours online within the fandom.

— the reason jess is bringing all of this up is because she is planning on bringing a series back, and clarifies that fans are allowed to have an opinion on her writing but she doesn’t want them to attack those surrounding her (family, friends, colleagues, ect.)

i highly encourage everyone to go view the tiktok (i put it in the content source) to verify this info for themselves, and see the recent activity. this post is purely informative.