Things That Make A Ship Abusive:

Things that make a ship abusive:

Put downs

Physical violence

Sexual abuse

Forcing the partner to stay with them

Making the partner feel like they’re not good enough

Trying to control the partner’s life

Blackmail 

Bullying. 

Things that DON’T make a ship abusive:

Both parties being the legal age of consent but one being significantly older than the other (can still be problematic, but it’s not abusive.) 

Someone saying something they shouldn’t have one time on accident and  sincerely apologizing for it afterwards (may be a legitimate cause to end the relationship, but does not qualify as abuse.) 

Arguing.

Honesty. 

You not liking it. 

The relationship in question being anything less than perfect. 

Can we please as a website end this trend where we call ships we don’t like abusive when they actually aren’t? It’s insulting to people who have actually been in or currently are in abusive relationships. 

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Maymays

“This is your daily, friendly reminder to use commas instead of periods during the dialogue of your story,” she said with a smile.

Why do ppl say that snape put children in danger when he saved children’s lives in literally every book

danger, as in physical danger? what??

forget saving the wizarding world, naming his firstborn after them, heading the auror office, etc., I would love to see the reunion/conversation in which dead Harry tries to explain to his dad and godfather that he named his other son after snape