And Done!

And done!

Agreed, OP, and a gigantic rant incoming:

Traditionally, you receive personal information about someone which could be used to ruin their social or psychological well-being by--and I know this is difficult to process, but please try--building a relationship with them first.

Why do you feel entitled to the personal information of total strangers? Do you demand to know the phobias of your cashiers? Do you pester your Uber driver or whatever about their triggers? Do you scream "I'M X YEARS OLD, HOW OLD ARE YOU???" to every person you pass on the street? Do you not speak to the delivery person for your Amazon order unless they hand over their driver's license, so you can be sure they're of a Safe Age and possess the Safe Gender Marker?

The concept people are struggling with here is "right relationship". As a total stranger, you do not have right relationship with me--you have no relationship! If you want to know more about me, you can read my blog posts where I discuss certain personal subjects I'm comfortable with being online, or you can talk to me personally, build a relationship, and then ask.

If you don't like that this process takes work on your part, well, you're not ready for friendships that aren't surface-level echo chambers, so we were destined to never get along.

If you're afraid you will learn something that will make you angry and upset and not want to be friends anymore, then you are seriously not ready for friendships of any kind. Your current friend group is either just as defensively cruel and untrusting as you are, or else too afraid to confront you about your bad behavior. In other words, not really friends at all.

And maybe you should work on that.

"Not having a carrd is a red flag!" No a red flag is you thinking you're entitled to a little pamphlet full of someone else's information.

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