If You See A Post Of Mine That You Like, I Beg Of You To Please Scroll On My Account. There Are So Many

If you see a post of mine that you like, I beg of you to please scroll on my account. There are so many of my posts that are either older or just got stomped on by the algorithm that I think people who like my posts that do well would also enjoy!!!

This is not me begging for notes or whatever btw, I just genuinely think some of my posts that kinda flopped would be well enjoyed by the people that like my other content.

Anyways that’s all!! Thank you for your time and continue scrolling away!

TW‼️ mention of ED⬇️

“Wow you ate all that??”

“I can’t believe you could finish that plate!”

“Seconds already?”

Yes and I have an ED so it was difficult. Shut up <3

Honestly though, the amount of times I’ve been told this and comments similar to these is just…..

My dad was like “you need to stop skipping meals!!” As if the reason I do that isn’t because he’s constantly made fun of my weight since I was 3 years old. (That’s not an exaggeration btw)

I still vividly remember when I was 3, sitting at my grandparents dining room table with them and my parents and my dad started on a 20 minute rant about how I was overweight and needed to start doing exercises. I WAS THREE.

Children remember every little comment. Don’t be a dick.

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The worst part about childhood trauma is that they never remember what they did to you.

“I never remember all these things you always bring up…” (actual quote from my father btw)

The second worst part is that you still love them.

“Wow!! The queer community is so cool!! I should research all these labels to better know the ins and outs of this community and how to support them!!! I’m such a good ally that I spend all my time watching queer TikTok compilations on YouTube!!! Mannn…. It does kinda suck that I’m straight tho :///“ -10 year old me

Uh yeah so anyways I’m a dumbass :)

Is this where “(derogatory)” came from???

What is or isn’t a slur can be highly contextual, y'all.

“Jonny Sims bummed a fag off my ma” doesn’t contain a slur, but “What are you, some kind of fag?” does.

“Queer studies”, “the queer community” and “I’m queer”? Not a slur. Some bigot calling you a “dirty queer”? Slur.

“Be gay, do crimes” and “He’s gay” ≠ slur, but “Ew, that’s so gay” = slur.

In conclusion, stop buying into this fucking “q slur” bullshit. Queer people talking about the queer community aren’t using it as a slur any more than a gay man calling himself gay is using that term as a slur.

Reblogging this for my fellow traumatized tumblr users <3

This is for all the people that wish more happened to them so their truama/ truama responses could be “more valid”:

THAT IS A SIGN OF MAJOR TRUAMA BABE <3

*especially if you were dealing with emotional abuse because that often involves gaslighting <3*

And as for the argument of “other people have gone through worse”? UTTER BULLSHIT other people, hell, people around you could’ve gone through “worse” truama and that does not mean your truama is immediately invalid. You’re allowed to have your own thoughts and feelings without them being proportioned next to someone else’s.

My grandfather would pick me up from school, ask me how my day was, and if I expressed even the slightest bit of being unsatisfied with my day, he would say “oh well you know who never gets good school days? Starving children in Africa 😀”

Do you see how idiotic that sounds? Yeah, that’s what you’re doing to yourself every day when you invalidate your trauma. (Not calling you idiotic btw, just trying to prove a point. You’re not stupid, you’re being manipulated.)

Btw this also goes for the ppl with any mental illness (but particularly depression) that don’t have any trauma so they have nothing to “blame” it on and feel invalid. You’re depressed bc the world around you sucks. You don’t need trauma to see that.

Anyways stay safe, drink water, and try to be nice to yourself for a day!

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