Is This Where (derogatory) Came From???

Is this where “(derogatory)” came from???

What is or isn’t a slur can be highly contextual, y'all.

“Jonny Sims bummed a fag off my ma” doesn’t contain a slur, but “What are you, some kind of fag?” does.

“Queer studies”, “the queer community” and “I’m queer”? Not a slur. Some bigot calling you a “dirty queer”? Slur.

“Be gay, do crimes” and “He’s gay” ≠ slur, but “Ew, that’s so gay” = slur.

In conclusion, stop buying into this fucking “q slur” bullshit. Queer people talking about the queer community aren’t using it as a slur any more than a gay man calling himself gay is using that term as a slur.

Me when people call me space boy:

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I’ve had a long day. Time for a “regress with me!” Post.

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Time to grab my favorite pillow, blankets, snacks, and activities!

After that, it’s time to turn on the show with my fictional caregiver (assassination classroom)

Then, i’ll dim my lights and instead put on my fairy lights!

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Remember, your regression is healthy and not gross. Regress if you need it. 💗

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The worst part about childhood trauma is that they never remember what they did to you.

“I never remember all these things you always bring up…” (actual quote from my father btw)

The second worst part is that you still love them.

TW‼️ mention of ED⬇️

“Wow you ate all that??”

“I can’t believe you could finish that plate!”

“Seconds already?”

Yes and I have an ED so it was difficult. Shut up <3

Honestly though, the amount of times I’ve been told this and comments similar to these is just…..

My dad was like “you need to stop skipping meals!!” As if the reason I do that isn’t because he’s constantly made fun of my weight since I was 3 years old. (That’s not an exaggeration btw)

I still vividly remember when I was 3, sitting at my grandparents dining room table with them and my parents and my dad started on a 20 minute rant about how I was overweight and needed to start doing exercises. I WAS THREE.

Children remember every little comment. Don’t be a dick.

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*bigots*: the trans agenda 🤓🤓☝️☝️☝️☝️

Ah yes! My agenda of feeling dysphoric, hugging my stuffed shark, fighting gender roles, and being depressed 😀