I AM THE CREATOR OF MY REALITY

I AM THE CREATOR OF MY REALITY

affirmations for becoming that girl

Every dream I harbor is a seed of potential, ready to bloom into reality.

Intelligence and creativity are the twin architects of my aspirations.

I demand respect and kindness, cultivating a garden of positivity in my life.

Love surrounds me like a warm embrace, and I am worthy of every ounce.

The journey unfolds perfectly; I trust in the timing of my own narrative.

Self-compassion is my sanctuary, a constant reminder of my deserving heart.

Build yourself a sustainable routine for 2024

you don’t have to schedule all your habits for everyday. Some habits can be for twice a week or thrice a week. If you can’t read 10 pages everyday, don’t fret. Try to read 1 chapter a week. Then slowly progress to 2.

do not be intimidated by accounts like mine. I post a lot of tips but I follow only the ones I know work for me, even if those tips are great. I share a lot so that different people can make use of them. Just because tip A works better for me than tip B, doesn’t mean that tip B is useless. Someone else could find B more useful than A.

How do you know you’re building a sustainable routine?

here are some indicators:

⭐️ the habits are “portable” for the most part - you do not need to be in specific places to execute them (you can read anywhere, you can workout in any hotel, etc).

⭐️ you’re able to follow all your habits at least 80% of the time in a month. Which means out of 30 days, for 24 days you are able to follow your habits. ⭐️ they don’t stress you out. It doesn’t make sense to procrastinate over your habits. The point of the habits is to reduce procrastination and improve yourself. If you’re stressing over it, go back to square one and start small.

⭐️ you are able to see that you’re improving. Maybe you’re feeling more confident, self assured and resilient. Whatever your end goal, it is important to understand that you won’t go from being, for example, under confident to confident overnight. It will happen gradually. Noticing your progress and complimenting yourself for the gradual change is important because then you’re validating yourself for the healthy changes you make. When you validate yourself as opposed to someone else validating you, you are acknowledging the hard work you have put in- this increases your motivation to do even better and to stay disciplined.

⭐️ over time, the habits come to you naturally. Let’s say meditating. You become so used to meditating that not doing it is like not brushing your teeth in the morning. It becomes a part of you and you accept and embrace it instead of dreading it.

⭐️ yes, you will have tough days. You will have days where you want to give up. It is important to schedule at least 2 mental health days a month for yourself where you can choose to do absolutely nothing and just relax. You are human, not a machine. Sometimes you need to push through those tough days and get things done anyway. There is a balance between resting and working hard.

⭐️ you eventually do not feel guilt or shame for prioritising yourself and your routine first. This is the most important indicator. You do not put any boy, friend, anyone (unless it’s an emergency of course) above you. You know you are your most important person.

Weekly Affirmations

♡ I am the creator of my own happiness. I’m ready to take responsibility and do what it takes to start living my dream life.

♡ I’m going to only focus on things I can control and let go of worry about the rest.

♡ 2024 is a year of wonderful surprises, good decisions, and creative solutions.

♡ I am creating financial abundance, a healthy body, and positive relationships in 2024.

♡ This year is going to be a great and wonderful year for me.

♡ This year, my dreams are coming true.

♡ I am dedicated to becoming my higher self this year.

𝐅𝐞𝐛𝐫𝐮𝐚𝐫𝐲 ins 🎀

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healing

exercising

having more fun

practicing gratitude

drinking more water

prioritizing my peace

prioritize my mental health

𝐅𝐞𝐛𝐫𝐮𝐚𝐫𝐲 outs 🏹

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drama

self doubt

people pleasing

being online all day

being unkind to myself

responding to negativity

suppressing my feelings