Who Transed My Gender?

Who transed my gender?

(young me versus adult me)

The doxxing and death threats we get in gaming are gonna be wild when AGI drop

Welcome to my Blog!

I don't know how you got here, but I'm sorry 😭

What is this blog

If you couldn't tell, this is my main blog. It doesn't exist for anything in particular safe for me just being me. But, I will always update this post with side blogs I create.

Who am I

I am Aya and I am not okay; however, the most you need to know is that I'm a writer, a music producer, and all around tgirl mess on the internet. I use she/they pronouns and I'm a tragic loser.

Side blogs

As mentioned, I have some sideblogs. Feel free to check them out

@ayaisnotokay - vent / jirai blog

@notayamichan - jp blog (日本語)

Finding Aya

Finding Aya

Finding Aya? Perfect, you stumbled upon the best way to find her!

I learnt it's best to approach a potential long term friendship carefully. Outline your boundaries and issues immediately, constructively, and allow them to do the same. Retain an understanding that slip ups will happen, and continue to work on mutual change.

As an example. I might tell you in advance that I can't fix issues you don't tell me about, so it's best to tell me about any boundaries or "rules" ahead of time, and inform me if and when you realise new ones.

Establishing a boubdary

Personally, I don't like repeating myself more than 3 times and I get progressively discouraged each time I have to repeat myself— so I'd prefer that when we talk, you try to keep your attention on me. I don't mind if something comes up, but it helps me to feel heard and acknowledged when I know you're paying attention to me.

Tw: blood, weapons, violence, injury, betrayal and anger

Idk I might line and color this some other time but here’s a vent sketch I made bc some people are bitchass liars bc they act like it’s your fault you crossed boundaries they never indicated to you were being crossed or even existed and expected you to change the minute they finally got their head part way out of their ass and at least told you like you can change deeply ingrained behavioural habits over night

To assert writers are, at the very least, people with a subjectively adequate WIP devolves our status as writers into something quite arbitrary.

Writers are those that use text to communicate ideas, entertain, or generate discussion via a range of styles and genres. A writer can also be any person that authors a singular story, an entire book, an article or even a blog.

If you find yourself expressing thoughts and ideas through written words you're a writer. Don't heed the takes of petty people— one compelled to so easily, and unconstructively, question the worth of other's merely seeks to project their own shortcomings and fears.

a little discussion....

So recently (the past couple weeks) I have been receiving a couple asks from a few people.

I'm not going to name names because I don't want to be that person. I'm not sure what I did to aggrivate this person and frankly I do not care.

All this person has said to me are crule things, stuff concerning my life and we'll being and stuff concerning how I can't be a real writer without a solid WIP.

Of course these words have affected me, which is why I've decided to put my whole "writing blog" on hold for a while.

Im not sure when I'll come back, but I know it won't be for a while, I need to take sometime for myself and reboost my mental health a little.

to my mutuals and followers you guys are amazing and I love you all dearly and I hope to come back. Take care now ❤️

I get the impression you shouldn't exist