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⋆ ˚｡⋆୨♡ Xenogendered genderfluid ♡୧⋆ ˚｡⋆
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૮꒰ྀི ´ ᵕ `꒱აつ━☆‧₊˚ A category of genderfluid that reffers to a gender that is fluid and xenic in nature ! It might be fluid between xenos , use xenogenders to express their gender better , not fully understand their gender and want to fill in the gaps with xenos , etc.
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Let me tell you something about Pitch Black.
Okay, there’s just one thing I need to get out of my system.
So practically 60% of the ROTG Fandom consists on hating Pitch, the antagonist. Most of those 60% of people are BlackIce/Cavity etc. shippers. A lot of the people in that percentage have it in their minds that Pitch would be a violent and abusive lover.
May I just take a moment of your time to go against this statement?
Firstly, let me tell you something that most fail to notice about Pitch. If he finds something that he loves, he will cherish that item/person more than anything – because for Pitch’s heart to be moved, it’s going to take something very goddamn special, because he is dark. Let me also remind you that he once had a daughter and loving wife, true he might have held a different form, but that little spark of Kozmotis that still lingers in him hasn’t been extinguished. Personally, I don’t have a father, but there is one thing I know about them. If they love their daughters, they will do pretty much anything to guarantee she is safe. Even if it means giving their own lives. They would also do the same thing for someone they loved.
Pitch isn’t the type of person to just go around dating anyone he fancies, because he is insecure. He doesn’t like to open up about his feelings, and thinks that if he does open up, it’s just going to get thrown back in his face – much like what happened with Jack at Antarctica. When he tried to get through to him that he understood how it felt to be invisible, and to feel out of place, Jack rejected him. He didn’t even show any sympathy for him, and just told him to leave him alone. In my opinion, if Jack had been a little more considerate, none of the aftermath would have happened (Jack’s staff being broken etc.). Jack could have convinced Pitch to stop, because he had his defences down. Pitch made himself vulnerable because he wanted someone to be with him, because he didn’t want to be alone anymore and he felt the only way of convincing him was to take down the wall he’d built around himself. Pitch may have been trying to manipulate Jack, but he was also trying to gain his trust. And Jack walked away. That would have hurt him.
Pitch isn’t invincible, he feels things too.
Let’s take this into account. If Pitch fell in love with someone, he wouldn’t take advantage of their feelings, because he wouldn’t want them to feel rejected, like he felt. Pitch would be a caring person to whoever he fell in love with, regardless the gender, and would always be willing to listen to them if they needed someone to talk to. You know why? Because that’s what he wants. Pitch has been alone for a long time, even someone as strong and dependant as he is has to want to talk to someone about whatever he’s got bottled up inside him.
Pitch isn’t incapable of loving something, he just doesn’t know how to. Just because he has been known to use violence in his plans, doesn’t necessarily mean he would abuse his lover. For example, Pitch has been alone and not believed in for a long time, as I said before, and if you’re alone and hated for that amount of time, you would start to get desperate. When the Fearlings had full grip on him when he first got turned, that was when he was at his most violent. He destroyed stars and planets, killed people and even turned some children into Fearlings.
As far as I’m aware, he didn’t do anything this violent after he escaped his imprisonment within the cave with Night Light. Correct me if I’m wrong. However, the violence he uses in the movie, is just actions of blind rage. Pitch was stuck hiding under beds whilst all of his enemies were loved and believed in, whereas he had to go through life listening to parents telling their children that he wasn’t real. It can easily make a person go mad. If Pitch was ever violent towards his lover, it would either be a moment of madness when in an argument, if the other said something very hurtful or it was someone he didn’t truly love.
I know most people would have stopped reading by now, but I felt the need to just express my opinion on how some people are portraying Pitch’s character. Don’t think I’m just saying this because Pitch is my favourite character, and I feel the need to stick up for him – because I totally agree that things Pitch has done in the past are wrong and unforgivable. But I just wanted to get my point across that Pitch isn’t a completely heartless being. He has a heart, he has feelings, and he has emotions.
Do not think he hasn’t just because of mistakes he’s made in the past.
one thing that pisses me off is when people supposedly love sokka but then say things that just don’t make sense. like that post that’s like “sokka was so charismatic he was charming everyone” no that was aang. aang is the one being charming and charismatic and friendly and beloved by everyone everywhere he goes. meanwhile many people straight up found sokka offputting due to his being a miserable little hater. neurotic freak. paranoid sleep-deprived and kills people without remorse. like he straight up gives off bad vibes a lot of the time. yes he does pull bitches and father figures, but that’s because cute girls and fatherly adult men are the only two demographics of people he actually makes an effort to be nice to. i’m all here for people appreciating sokka, but we need to stop acting like what his makes him great is the fact that he’s some extroverted life of the party when a) he isn’t b) aang, however, very much is and c) he’s literally so depressed that he makes it everyone else’s problem just by standing in the same room as them with his utterly miserable vibes. get it right
Hey everybody that sees this just want to say that what ever you identify as is valid and don’t let anyone tell you any different also happy national coming out day even though it’s late it’s still important!!!! So to everyone that came out no matter how you did it congrats and to everyone who didn’t you too are still valid💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Hiiiii
I have a really big favour
Somewhere around two weeks ago I saw a post on Instagram, it was a turtle which had a rainbow flag in his shell, it was clear he was closeted, with a text "this month is for you too" (or something along these lines)
Have you seen it? Please help me, I can't find it, I forgot to save it! Thank you xxxxx
Hey @ilwiwbysmv, is this it?
IM LAUGHING SO HARD I DIDNT THINK SEXUAL DESIRE WAS A REAL THING LIKE I ALWAYS SAW PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT HOW THEY WANTED SEX BUT I THOUGHT THEY WERE JOKING OR EXAGGERATING OR SOMETHING THATS WHY IT WAS SO HARD FOR ME TO REALIZE I WAS ACE BECAUSE I THOUGHT IT WENT WITHOUT SAYING SEX ISNT THAT IMPORTANT IM 19 YEARS OLD I CANT STOP LAUGHING LITERALLY 99% OF THE POPULATION EXPERIENCES SEXUAL DESIRE AND I THOUGHT IT WAS A JOKE
jenson button I am free if you ever want a third wife. if you ever want a third wife jenson button, hit me up because I am free
My brother ate the last slice of pizza and I was so angry I woke up and smacked him irl.
ABSOLUTELY
We don’t talk about Gary much and that makes me sad so here’s some headcanons
Probably gay? I mean my gaydar was picking up some serious readings from him
Probably owns a nasa shirt. Funny thing is he doesn’t even like space
Used to have a golden retriever dog
Lives off of orange juice since Mormons can’t drink tea or coffee (apparently? That’s what google told me. If I’m wrong though please let me know)
Stan once gave him a cheap plastic ring that he got from a capsule machine thing at the arcade. Gary has worn it every day since.
Please consider: Gary with an undercut
Also consider: Gary with long hair
Unironically listens to one direction and cried when Zayn left (we’ve all been there)
Terrified of spiders but doesn’t want to kill them. He yells at Stan whenever he kills an insect and has him take them outside instead.
Valid I feel like doesn’t mean what I thought it meant anymore? Can someone please explain the word to me as it’s usually used especially in mental health?
Does it mean like morally acceptable? Allowed? Cherished/desired? I’m genuinely so confused help a girl out plz
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Behold my face
The Invalidation and Abuse of Asexuals is Alive: My Story
*mentions of self harm
Full Disclosure: This occurred while I was a sophomore in high school- I am now a senior. I identify as queer and at the time of this relationship was questioning if I was asexual but I was fairly certain.
When I was a sophomore in high school I had a girlfriend who emotionally abused me. At first I didn’t recognize that that was what it was but I have had a couple years to evaluate now and I understand that what was happening was not normal.
So to give you some background, I was questioning at the time whether I was asexual or not. I had no urge to have sex regardless of whether I was or not, I was only in high school for crying out loud. But I had a girlfriend who really wanted to have sex.
I explained to her that I didn’t really want to have sex and that I was questioning if I was asexual. It felt at first like she wanted to understand. She would ask me questions about asexuality but then she would ask deeply personal questions about what turned me on, if anything did at all and if I masturbated. If we had been dating for longer, I may not have thought it was as weird but I was naive at the time of this situation and I also was not as comfortable with my sexuality.
Regardless I could brush of that first part and I don’t really find that so much abusive as just strange, kinda weird but oh well. It’s later that it became emotionally abusive.
She would text me at night, asking me if I didn’t want to have sex with her because she disgusted me. I would try and reassure her and tell her that I thought she was gorgeous and besides that I didn’t care what she looked like, I loved her anyways. She would get weirdly defensive and say that I knew she had depression and I can’t just keep her from having sex because it makes her feel like she’s awful.
Now I want to say, I understand that depression is an awful mental disorder to deal with but in no way shape or form should it ever be used as a tactic to get someone to feel bad like this. It should never be used to get your partner to have sex with you.
I felt so guilty. Even though I knew that I wasn’t disgusted by her, she made me feel like I was simply by not having sex with her. She made me feel like I was ruining her mental health by not having sex with her. I was constantly trying to do something to appease her so she wouldn’t bring up the sex topic. It was ruining my mental health.
She would ask me to do other sexual acts so that she could be satisfied but I wouldn’t have to have sex. Which at the time felt like a compromise but believe me- it’s not.
If you don’t want to do anything sexual you are in no way obligated to.
Of course there was other emotional abuse that was occurring regarding the fact that I never called her, she made me pick, unknowingly, which wrist she should cut and other things but this was the specific abuse towards my asexuality.