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Heavy, HEAVY ON THIS PART, radical feminists are the reason why lesbian separatism and lesbian radical feminism exist in the first place. They were the ones to call us hipersexual and say that butch/femme culture was associable with the patriarchy, which would result in the assimilationism that is lesbicofeminism.

Every single anti- bi/pan-lesbian post i make goes the same way.

I go "hey lesbians dont experience attraction to men actually."

And some fucknut goes "thats exclusionary!! Lesbians can fuck men!!"

And i go "so thats rape culture. Youre advocating for lesbian corrective rape"

And they go "you dont respect diverse genders/sexualities!!"

And i go "i dont care what people call themselves, feel free to make up new labels, but lesbianism does not include attraction to men"

And the circle back around to "youre being exclusionary!! And a terf!!"

And i go "excluding is not inherently morally bad. Including is not inherently morally good. Also, im only talking about not being attracted to men, why do you think i mean "trans women" when i say men"

Then they go "well theres a long history of lesbians fucking men! Dont deny history!"

And i go "those lesbians were bisexual women who fought hard to have their own label and identity. You are being biphobic by erasing their struggles. Additionally, something having history doesnt absolve it of any crime"

And sometimes theyll go "but men fucking lesbians is a kink! You cant kinkshame!"

And ill go "something being a kink does not automatically mean it can't be criticized. Are pedophilia and beastiality a kink? Are they something that should be allowed? Kinks are not some magical, untouchable item that can do no harm in any situation."

And they'll go back to "some people just have open or fluid genders/sexualities! You cant box us in!"

And i go "sure. And you cant tell me how open or closed my sexuality is. You cant redefine a sexuality for all lesbians just because you want to. A sexuality is not more morally correct when open, and not more morally condemnable when closed. Aren't you against political lesbianism? How is political fluidity any better? (fluidity just for the sake of being more Politically Correct)"

And they go "but youre being mean!! Youre being loud and mean and your tone is bad"

And i go "well im a sexual assault survivor advocating against sexual assault of lesbians. My tone is probably indicative of how strongly i feel about this issue. Plus, its fucked up to ask an oppressed class to try and get the boot off their neck as prettily and quietly as possible."

And then they devolve into calling me a transphobe-terf mean scary fat lesbian who doesn't care about other people. All over me saying "lesbians do not fuck men".

Everyone has their own personal relationship and experience with their gender. 

No two people have the same experience, or should have the same experience for that matter. Saying that your experience as a woman or a man should be defined by what you have in your pants is limiting and very simple minded. 

Being a man, being a woman, much like being religious, as a deeply personal one. No one else should be allowed to dictate or define what that means for you. Who you are as a person and how you choose to present yourself, is entirely up to you. 

It’s not for someone, especially someone who does not know you and your life, to dictate. 

So kindly, please stay out of my pants. My body, my choice :) thanks.

I'm sick of people being called sexist for complaining about Hinata being a housewife. Yes she can do whatever she wants of course. But do you think that if Hinata were a male character, the creator would have concluded her arc like this. Of course not! He would have shined brightly, he would find himself and grow stronger. But Hinata has to compromise because she's a woman? I'll defend her from haters who say that makes her weak but come tf on! She's rarely ever appreciated, her sacrifices aren't seen as such, it's almost as if everyone around her, including Naruto, believes she HAS to do that. That's messed up. If Kishi really had boss ass woman who is dedicated to being a mom in mind, maybe he would make sure she's treated with respect. Maybe he would remind us of her legacy as a kunoichi every now and then. Maybe he actually would involve her in things that DO concern her like idk the Kaguya arc.

It's not feminist when women HAVE to sacrifice their dreams in order to raise a family, it's patriarchy.

L with the T 💖

edit: OP is a trans inclusive intersectional feminist. this post is not for “the overlap between trans men and lesbians” (quote from a terf who reblogged this). this post is for trans lesbians, and solidarity between lesbians and trans people. TERFs and other radfems dont reblog or interact.