Reblog If You Still Miss Lexa And Will Never Get Over Her

Reblog if you still miss Lexa and will never get over her

We Only Fall in Love with 3 People in Our Lifetime — Each One for a Specific Reason.

-Kate Rose (Elephant Journal)

Falling In Love the 1st Time: The Love that Looks Right

This is the love that appeals to what we should be doing for society’s sake—and probably our families. We enter into it with the belief that this will be our only love and it doesn’t matter if it doesn’t feel quite right, or if we find ourselves having to swallow down our personal truths to make it work because deep down we believe that this is what love is supposed to be.

Falling In Love the 2nd Time: The Hard Love

The second is supposed to be our hard love—the one that teaches us lessons about who we are and how we often want or need to be loved. This is the kind of love that hurts, whether through lies, pain or manipulation.

Sometimes it’s unhealthy, unbalanced or narcissistic even.

There may be emotional, mental or even physical abuse or manipulation—most likely there will be high levels of drama.

This is exactly what keeps us addicted to this storyline, because it’s the emotional roller coaster of extreme highs and lows and like a junkie trying to get a fix, we stick through the lows with the expectation of the high.

Falling In Love the 3rd Time: The Love that Lasts

And the third is the love we never see coming. The one that usually looks all wrong for us and that destroys any lingering ideals we clung to about what love is supposed to be.

This is the love that comes so easy it doesn’t seem possible.

It’s the kind where the connection can’t be explained and knocks us off our feet because we never planned for it.

We are just simply accepted for who we are already—and it shakes to our core.

This is the love where we come together with someone and it just fits—

there aren’t any ideal expectations about how each person should be acting, nor is there pressure to become someone other than we are.

It isn’t what we envisioned our love would look like, nor does it abide by the rules that we had hoped to play it safe by. But still it shatters our preconceived notions and shows us that love doesn’t have to be how we thought in order to be true.

This is the love that keeps knocking on our door regardless of how long it takes us to answer.

It’s the love that just feels right.

“i loved her so much”

If kara succeeds in getting back earth 38 through the book of reality basically rewriting history will she erase how lena found out about her identity?

Cause she can.

Lena would never hate her then and they could go back to being bestfriends.

Kara can then reveal her identity in a much better manner that lena could accept.

Reblog if you think this can happen.

This is me every day.

Me: *so tired my eyes hurt and I’m struggling to keep them open*

Brain: hoe don’t do it

Me: *clicks*

Brain: oh my god 

Me sharing a crazy long extensive analysis of how some random unintentional tiny gesture affected relationship progress of my otp