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things in my den (red panda edition)

♡ sunlight peaking in ⟡ beads & bells above the entrance ♡ vines, dreamcatchers, suncatchers, etc ⟡ clay paintings/murals on the wall ♡ trinket collection! feathers, rocks, crystals, bones, coins, leafs, mushrooms. beads, buttons, string, etc ⟡ jewelry and accessories hanging from a tree branch ♡ small nest for zzz ⟡ plushies & fluff!!! ♡ projectors ⟡ my mirror >:3

wordgirl posting........

(Knocks on ur window) do u wanna research animals 2gether and learn about zoology and go down a tunnel of which we will never return

red graphics stamps

more red graphics stamps blinkies

getting it together⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🗒️

there are so many aspects in getting it together, and even the phrase "get it together" its super vague and not rly encapsulating of anything in particular so i hope this post helps give u a place to start when u feel like u need to get it together…💬🎀

REMEMBER ;

when u feel the need to get it together, ask urself questions. why do i feel the need to get it together? am i doing too much am i doing too little etc etc. that way u can better navigate and pinpoint the aspect in which u have to get it together.

DIET AND PHYSICAL ACTIVITY ;

♡ am i eating enough nutritious foods? - start incorporating fresh fruits and veggies and foods that nourish u into ur daily diet

♡ am i eating enough everyday? - meal prep so that u can be sure that ur eating enough food every day cuz ur body needs sustenance

♡ am i eating too much everyday? - if u catch urself binge eating and indulging in eating an unhealthy amount everyday, lay back on snacking and stick to eating three filling meals a day.

♡ am i moving my body everyday? - go on walks, do some yoga or some pilates. dont cultivate a lifestyle in which ur constantly sitting and not moving cuz thats not healthy.

EDUCATION -> CAREER GOALS ;

♡ am i completing my assignments and handing them in on time? - if ur not then ur just shooting urself in the foot. do all of ur assignments and hand them in. like now.

♡ am i still focused on my dream? - if not, what do u feel is stopping u from pursuing ur dream, or what is distracting u from what actually matters? identify it and drop it.

RELATIONSHIPS ;

♡ am i isolating myself subconsciously from my friends/family? - if the answer is yes, try and figure out why and communicate with ur friends and family.

♡ am i making an effort to speak to my friends and see them? - maintaining healthy relationships takes work on both ends. you need to show ur friends that u value them and care about ur friendship for it to work. this also goes for romantic relationships.

INNER WORK AND HEALING ;

♡ am i setting aside time to do my inner work? - if not, make time bcuz ur mental health isn't something u should sweep under the rug.

♡ how do i feel? - literally that simple. be nice to urself. ask urself how u feel because ur feelings matter + they're valid.

HOW TO KEEP URSELF ON TRACK ;

use planning devices like notion, google calendar or just a simple to do list every single day. make sure not to put too much on ur plate at first. reward urself also to encourage urself to continue to do what u said you'll do.

this sucks so bad i need to [remembers suicide jokes only worsen my mental health] put on the best talent show this towns ever seen

love

i blew out the candles on my birthday cake the candle goes out i threw the rock in the water and wished for love i looked back at it and only saw my reflection i dreamt i knew you in another life i looked at you with forlorn eyes i opened them and you were gone but my eyes still had the same longing

but a lack of love just leads to more knowledge i'm grateful, for knowing knowing that the kindness of others is another joke knowing that safety is an illusion of the mind knowing everything, yet nothing, all the time

and i wonder if when i dream, dream about love, wish about love, hear about love, find people I yearn to love, is it all some sign? people say no person can make you love yourself. but I love myself, i've tried so hard to love myself, but it doesn't make a difference, love will come, love will come. but when? when will my wish become more then a dream, when will my dream become more than a hope, when will the larvae of my hope flourish into a beautiful butterfly, am I stuck in an eternal cocoon? or is the love for what I do all I need?

MY INTRODUCTION >:3

❤︎ im aspen im american, 15/freshman, use he/him, trans & gay

★ im a therian (psychological & spiritual), southern tamandua, cave nectar bat & red panda, i post abt that sometimes

❤︎ im a goth maximalist & i <3 20s, 80s & 2000s fashion & red and black

★ im hindu + spiritual

❤︎ i <3 geography

~ fandoms im in : ★ ace attorney, creepypasta, danganronpa, life is strange, animal crossing, stardew valley, (roblox) yellowstone, (roblox) dti, turning red, star wars, saiki k, death note, animal jam, monster high, mlp, flamingo, & various others

~ favorite artists/bands :

~ other

★ I LOOOVE ANIMALS <333 AND my asks are open for any moodboards, pfps, stimboards, etc for any animal or theriotype

❤︎ i do ballet/contemporary dance, writing, poetry and i draw

★ dni racists, homophobes, transphobes, etc, mspec lesbian/gay, pro/comship, pro endo, nsfw/kink, just anyone hateful & freaky

Things that get me as close to shifting as I'll probably ever be:

Music on full blast. Especially stuff that reminds me of my type(s?)! ::}

Blanket piles. Caves. Nooks. I'm curled up like as a fox you don't understand

Getting decked out in my fav clothes! My faves are usually ones that make me feel critter-y, since my kinity is closely related to my emotions.

Activity! Weights, going on walks, running around in the woods, and occasionally quads. If I'm low on energy for activity, I indulge in one of the above to get pumped up!! ::D

Feel free to reblog w/ur own kin-happies!

Little fun thing for otherkin community, mostly animal kins though

Show your kintypes as an lps (or the closest thing to it)

Here's mine :3

I was just thinking about the many arguments against Therianthropy and wanted to put my rebuttals into words and share them to see if I'm missing or incorrect about something.

"Therianthropy isn't real, you're just faking it" You can't fake something unknowingly. Not believing someone when they tell you about their identity is a you problem. You can doubt all you want to.

"Therianthropy is just mental illness/disorder" "A mental disorder is characterized by a clinically significant disturbance in an individual’s cognition, emotional regulation, or behaviour. It is usually associated with distress or impairment in important areas of functioning" (World Health Organization- mental disorders. 8 june 2022.) Therianthropy doesn't inherently equal impairing a person from living a perfectly fine and stable life. There are many Therianthropes who do have proper social and emotional lives. But Mental illnesses can affect the way a person sees the world and themselves and influence a person's identity. And that should be respected.

"Therianthropy can't be proven by science" Something like Therianthropy would probably fall under social science and/or psychology. And IIRC If someone is claiming something exists and is real, then it's real. The only thing that needs to be done is categorize what it is and how it develops. (Which makes sense to me. You probably shouldn't just ignore people who are claiming something just because it's unheard of)