Venus12th

Frontispiece. The appearance of light when filtered through screens. Principles of physics and meteorology. 1848.

3 types of self soothing thoughts 

Validation: it’s ok that I hurt and want to feel better

Reassurance: I can handle this pain even though it hurts 

Perspective taking: I’ve had bad days like this before and I’ve made it through them. I can remember my better days and know I’m not always hurting this much 

Individuals with 12th house planets and personal planets in Pisces can often expect recognition of their sorrows when suffering through adversity. They can have the idea of a debt that has to be paid to them by unseen forces, whether it be through life itself, fate or karma, or another force they believe in such as through religious means. “I gave so much and went through so much, so now I am owed.” One must learn that sacrifice is not sacrifice if reward is expected. The “reward” in this context is the luxury that there is always a choice to serve or suffer; the option to grow and learn from the hardships they endure through selflessness is there, or, one can forever circle the idealization of a neutral, greater force than them like the universe somehow bending to their will. These same effects occur according to the condition of Neptune in the chart.