Holy Shit. I Turn 20 In A Week And Two Days....

Holy shit. I turn 20 in a week and two days....

Holy shit

REBLOG IF YOUR BLOG IS A SAFE SPACE FOR AROMANTIC PEOPLE AND IF YOU THINK THEY ARE VALID

I want to see how many people actually are willing to say this and not just act like it

'out' in the sense that I :

openly don't want a partner,

openly don't like the idea of sex

always wear my ace ring,

and have subtle pride flag colours everywhere.

'in' in the sense that I:

avoid actually using the terminology as to avoid anyone who doesn't react positively to aspec people (they just think I'm weird for not wanting a partner and thinking sex is gross)

and use subtle pride flags so my parents don't look up the flag meaning.

I need everyone I know irl to remember that, while I love all animals to varying degrees, I am first and foremost a cat person.

Please stop asking me to watch your dogs, especially if they've just been cleaned or you're showing up to my house. Weeks warning is preferable, but I understand life happens

Sometimes I gotta remind myself that I opened myself up to criticism from strangers when I decided to post on the internet.

I think a lot of people need this reminder, too

My Heart still does the flutter flutter and it only increases with each comment.

Comments from the same person make me even more happy because that let's me know they're sticking through with my shit.

Comments spur me to write more. Tell me your favorite parts. What parts did you not like? What are your theories? Please, communicate with me. Do you want a beach episode?

I love getting comments on Ao3. One of my favorites is someone saying that they love that I'm giving attention to the background staff and characters that don't ever get attention.

My heart flutters every time.

(Little did the commenter know that those background characters in book one are important in book five)