I Would Rather Have My Cat Out And About Than Cooped Up Inside. Not Everyone Can Afford To Have Houses

I would rather have my cat out and about than cooped up inside. Not everyone can afford to have houses big enough for the cat not to be suffocated. Cats can’t be compare to toddlers here - they are solitary beings and they need to be where they want to be. If you were made to spend your entire life in one place and you were forbidden to go outside, would you not be driven to madness? Would you not like to be the one to decide your own comings and goings?

Who are you to confine an animal with your suffocating overprotectiveness? Who are you to put leashes on cats? 

i'm gonna be real with you guys i do not give a shit about people "stealing" outdoor cats. i don't feel bad for people who let their cat free roam and found out that someone down the block unknowingly took it in because it was neglected enough for them to think it was a stray.

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I [34 M] am somebody who inherited a lot of wealth from my parents, which allows me to support my ex’s daughter [10 F, from France and not my daughter]. To deal with the challenges of remote learning, I hired a tutor [19 F] to live in our home and teach her while I’m traveling for work. The tutor seemed a bit boring at first, but the more I got to know her, the more I liked her. We eventually really hit it off and got together after I broke up with my ex - now we’re engaged.

There’s just one problem: we were about to be married when my ex-wife’s brother [38 M] showed up and revealed that I’ve kept my bipolar and/or depressed wife [37 F] locked in a small padded room in my attic for the past 15 years. (Inlaws know all your skeletons. Ugh.) He then called me a bigamist in front of my girlfriend, embarrassing me and her!

Now my gf wants to break off our engagement...all because of a little spousal attic confinement! I tried to compromise - I even said that marriage wasn’t a huge deal and she could still be my mistress, but she won’t hear me out. We’re so in love, I don’t see what the big deal is...AITA here???

Tl;dr: AITA for trying to convince my 16yr younger fiancée to become my mistress after she discovered I kept my depressed wife trapped in a padded attic room for 15 years?

I have only recently learnt that I might be asexual but I think it will take some time and a lot more introspection to fully claim the word but I think the major reason I preferred written smut over visual is because in the written form, someone would actually be explaining what the characters were feeling in that moment. I was(and still am) so clueless about what sexual attraction feels like that I had to have someone explain to me step-by-step what sex would actually feel like. 

Does this make sense to you? If it does please respond and I would love to hear about your experiences too.

Isn’t this a Kardashian’s house? dunno which sister

still thinking..

my soul left my body