INFJ Traits, Social,Weirdness

INFJ Traits, Social, Weirdness

Naturally inclined to help others

Natural diplomats because of the ability to see both sides

Egalitarianism and karma are very attractive ideas to INFJs

INFJs find it easy to make connections with others

INFJs need time alone to decompress and recharge

We can’t stop reading people even if we try

Champions for the oppressed and downtrodden

Often neglects to take care of themselves – putting others first

Prone to exhaustion due to the passion of their convictions

Gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive

Self-Expression comes easier on paper than face to face

Artistic and creative

Struggle to adequately express ourselves

Has a deep need to help people “sort out their stuff”

INFJs are inclined to create order and practical systems in their outer world

INFJs operate within themselves on an intuitive basis

Knows things intuitively without knowing how

INFJs are easily affected by other people’s emotions

Have uncanny insight into people and situations

Prefer deep conversations to surface topics

Are protective of their inner selves

Geared to improve themselves through personal growth

Are rarely at complete peace with themselves

Has “little use” for social norms and routines

Always improving themselves and their surroundings

Always testing people to see if we can talk about things that really matter (usually can’t)

Can hold grudges for long periods of time.

We are information addicts, INFJs are the most well-read of all the personality types

Love’s variety in our romantic relationships

We rebel, but also want to be accepted

Losing/ Ending relationships is extremely painful

The whole INFJ existence is bound up in hiding and concealing our true nature

Have very high expectations of themselves

Tendency to take care of others needs while neglecting our own

Most likely of all types to cope with stress by seeing a therapist

Is a naturally nurturing, patient, devoted and protective

Hyper-aware of their surroundings

Are the least able of all the personality types to be in a long-term relationship

If the person we are talking to is too active, they will take a passive role, if the person we are talking to is too passive, we will take an active role.

Mysterious nature

INFJs know we are special and we revel in our rarity

Highly reserved, quiet, thoughtful, and almost above all else – introspective.

They make loving parents and usually have strong bonds with their children

Prefers careers where they can be creative and somewhat independent

Are very hard on themselves

It’s common for INFJs to intuitively assess their vicinity, and modify their behavior accordingly

To get an INFJ to open up, you must have some degree of depth about you and show that your view of things are not that dissimilar from their own

Always looking for something new, rarely satisfied with the mundane or routine

Not good at dealing with minutia or very detailed tasks in careers

Are highly cerebral and reflective

Wants to be alone about 75% of the time

Very sexual in private, but respectful and dignified in public

INFJs are quiet around you if; they don’t trust you, or they are completely comfortable with you.

Have a natural affinity for art, and may excel in the sciences, using their intuition

Are complex characters with a range of talents and abilities

Has a limited amount of social energy

INFJs are often mistaken for extroverts

Would rather spend time with our creations than with people

Keeps the majority of people in their lives at arm’s length

Because of the high demands of people close to them INFJs frequently withdraw into themselves shutting out the world for a few days

Loyal to those they trust

Wonders why most people are idiots

Does not take kindly to being ignored or interrupted

Natural activists for causes but not for political gain or power

Suffers from emotional overload because of their inherent nature to be “givers”

Has the clear insights into the motivations of others, for good and for evil

Highly empathic – Can feel and sense what others are feeling

Are natural counselors and healers

Hates liars

INFJs are the Archetypal “Loner” by choice

Are moved to champion causes and activities that serve the greater good

Has a strong sense of personal integrity

Natural healers

Are private and selective about sharing intimate thoughts and feelings

INFJs are far less serious inwardly than they appear outwardly

We like to have things orderly and systematic

Use both sides of the brain equally

I’m crying… Congratulations Jamias Awesome job Ms. Wimbush!  Much love and respect! #blessings

Protect our Kids! Black love ❤️

Imagine telling your best friend to stay away from Steve Harrington.

My best friend F/N always tries to go after any guy I've ever had an interest in even the guys I've only been friends with and I don't know why but it stops with Steve!

Y/n: "F/N I need you to listen to me very carefully alright?" I started off.

F/N: "Y/N what's going on your scaring me."

Y/N: "It's about Steve. I know him and I come from two entirely different worlds, he's beautiful and popular with amazing hair and I'm more punk with really messy blonde hair , we have two different social circles but I don't care , I really don't care because all I know is that I want him." I said sighing exasperated.

We didn't know this whole time we had an audience consisting of Steve, Nancy, and Johnathan. We were in my kitchen and they were watching from the dinning room.

F/N: F/N Looked at me shocked and confused. "Y/N what are you trying to say to me exactly?" They asked.

Y/N: I shook my head while looking down then back to my best friend "I'm saying that with all the guys I've ever liked or have ever been friends with you decide that YOU! Have to have them causing a rift between myself and that guy and now I'm saying it no longer matters because you can have them All except Steve. You can't have him because he's the only one out of all them that actually matter to me." I said with my eyes glistening.

Steve: Steve completely dumbfounded that someone especially you could be so taken with him even after how bad of a boyfriend he was to Nancy. "Y/N if you really meant everything you said just now about how you feel about me and it's not bullshit , then no one can take me away from you." Steve said to me.

I walked over to him with red creeping up my neck barely able to look him directly in the eyes. "It's not bullshit not even close." I told him.

Steve then tugged my hips towards him and kissed me and I knew he was mine and not even F/N could get in between us

“I have been blamed for not being genuine because I avoid eye contact sometimes. The truth is, I just can’t make eye contact with those that I don’t think they are genuine.”

— Some introvert.