This Is Genuinely Exactly How I Strive To Be

this is genuinely exactly how i strive to be

Inches Geleta, Casa Infinity, Locarno, 2015

the personification of death being portrayed as deeply kind in fiction is something that reduces me to tears every single time

Why You Struggle With ✨Discipline✨

Discipline can be hard for many people because they often lack a strong reason or motivation to stick to their goals. It's like wanting something really badly but not having the determination to work for it. How bad do you actually want it? Sometimes, people choose fun things over the things that are good for them in the long run. Others have trouble managing their time and making smart choices, and they give in to distractions or bad habits easily. Fear of both success and failure can also make it tough to stay disciplined. If there's no one to remind them or support them, they might give up too quickly. This is your life and no one is coming to save you. No one can want it for you more than you. Things like phones and social media can also make it hard to focus, but they don't disconnect. Feeling stressed or overwhelmed can mess with discipline too. Having clear goals and a plan can help a lot. Remember, being disciplined is like a skill that you can get better at with practice and by finding ways to stay motivated. Usually, there's nothing really stopping you from achieving your goals, it's mostly you standing in your own way. The thought of missing out on your dreams because you're not disciplined enough can be really tough to handle. Worrying about what could happen 5 years from now causes you anxiety and paralyses you. It's difficult to accept that you could have it all with just a bit of effort. So, discipline is not only about getting things done but also about achieving the life you want and avoiding the regret of not trying harder.

More notes on spiritualism in the Victorian Era. 👻

TUES 30TH MAY, '23

i finished uni (undergrad) last week as i handed in my final assignment on the 23rd! have not posted in about a year or whatever but look, i did it! feels super weird to be done! wahoo! wahee! wahey!