Hi, Just To Make Things Clear

Hi, just to make things clear

If you think is ok to assume people's stances in certain discourses based on their boundaries, or think that boundaries and stances are the same thing

Please, respectfully, get out of my blog

I don't like in any kind of way people who start assuming things about others based on boundaries and then claim that their assumption is true when in fact might not be true, boundaries and stances when discourses might be hand in hand but no always and I hate that people think that

Thanks

SPECIES DYSPHORIA HAVERS. RE8LOG AND I WILL FOLLOW!!!!!!!! You will find real takes here I promise.

🌌🪐 :3

(Ask game!!)

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🌌-Does your system have little to no amnesia between switches?

Really depends on the reason why the switch happened, when the switches are for protective or very bad triggers we do tend to forget, there's not such thing as a consistent way of amnesia presenting when switching for us, it depends in a lot of factors

🪐-Does your system have Angry or "dangerous" persecutors?

Yes, in fact our main host is considered one of the dangerous persecutors if he's not watched properly in front, we have a lot of persecutors that fall into the dangerous and angre category, but that's not their only trait yk?

Although it's kinda interesting to see how they present themselves lol

Now 4 lol

Update, I'm definitely doing the blocking big CDD blogs here, specially anti endo ones

I already blocked 3, I reblogged my post of this saying I blocked one, to this point it's already three and probably it would go on and be more...

I'm kinda disappointed because I used to follow this blogs expecting something good or useful, guess I was hoping too much for blogs like that, what a shame :/

I want to draw ur pfp so badly! may I ask permission? tbh it will be something simple, lol!

OMGGG?? OUR PFP??

Bro our pfp it's our system sona, it's such a silly creature that represents us

OFC! You can draw it, it doesn't matter if it's stickmans, any drawing is accepted and cared so much :3

Please if you do it tag us or send it to DM, and also if we like it, can we use it for private personal reasons? Obvious with credit

If you need here's the full body of the syssona if you need it lol

Idk what else to say... Thx in advance ig :3 /pos /g

Also add a category for "you can but PLEASE be CAUTIOUS"

Talking about alter roles, some super specific alter roles can put you in danger while talking about it, so it's important to have that in mind

The DOs and DON'Ts of your online privacy as a DID/DDNOS system.

Openly being a DID/DDNOS system online can be dangerous, as it may lead to harassment or other risks for your safety. These are some tips for online privacy as a system: for newly discovered systems, younger systems and anyone who might need advice.

❌️ DON'Ts

❌️ DON'T easily give away your Simply Plural/PluralKit/Octocon access. Those system tracking apps/bots are full of sensitive information about you and other people might use them to hurt you, so it's fundamental to set visibility levels on your general system profiles, alter profiles and fields. When setting any kind of visibility level where information is shared with even one other person, ask yourself: "What do we gain by sharing this?" and "Can this piece of information be potentially dangerous for us if shared?" ;

❌️ DON'T share your triggers publicly, even the non-negative ones. People might take advantage of you in the future by purposefully triggering certain alters out. If you want to share triggers with other people as a sort of emergency measure, then carefully choose people you trust such as partners, close friends, guardians, family members or your therapist. No one aside from yourself is entitled to know what's triggering for you, if someone keeps demanding to know then vocalize how it's highly sensitive information and set a clear boundary ;

❌️ DON'T share the body's face online if you are not aware of the risks, especially if you are bodily a minor. Unfortunately some groups of people might harass you to extreme ends just because you're openly a system online: if you show the body's face online you can become their target for bullying and/or they might even try to dox you. Of course this is dangerous for bodily adult systems too, but for minor bodied systems doxxing can be even more risky for a variety of reasons. If you want to post photos of the system's body, don't do it on your system's social media account or on a public discord server: do it on a separate account non-system centered ;

❌️ DON'T share alot of details about your disorder on social media. Publicly highlighting details about your disorder (ex. being a survivor of organized abuse, splitting very easily from stress, having other specific comorbidities, etc...) can gain the attention of ill intentioned people that might potentially try to hurt you by manipulating you. If you want to talk about those things online, save that information for conversations in safe spaces with people you trust. However if you want to spread awareness of some things that affect your experience as part of a system but can also put a target on yourself, then take some extra cautionary measures by not posting too much personal information ;

✅️ DOs

✅️ DO set boundaries on your profile based on whatever feels comfortable. It's your social media page and it's understandable if you feel like certain groups of people should not interact with your content: boundaries are important in everyday life and that should be the same online. Aside from DNI lists, on Tumblr specifically there are many other things you can do to filter content (mainly blocking people and filtering tags) and to prevent harassment (reporting, not allowing anonymous asks, not allowing asks at all or not allowing asks with media attached to them) which can be both quite useful too ;

✅️ DO take breaks from social media when some situations online are starting to take a toll on your mental health. It doesn't matter if it's syscourse related, harassment or just general drama: when it starts to be something heavy for you then take a break to take your mind of things. Learn when enough is enough. It's important to remember that you decide how much time you'll need in order to feel better, you shouldn't be pressured into coming back ;

✅️ DO be careful on the tags you use related to system spaces. Systemblr is extremely divided on many things and misusing a tag can make people accuse you of invading certain spaces, this would probably result in you being a target for harassment. Before using a tag in one of your post, make sure you know what that tag is used for to not cause misunderstandings and/or other issues ;

✅️ DO establish a clear level of privacy with the rest of the system. If possible, try to communicate and discuss how much you collectively want to share with the public about the system (such as names or other information about the system's members) and what is best to keep private. Remember that if another system online does it, it doesn't mean you should do it too: always do whatever feels comfortable and not what someone else does ;

Do add more advice in the comments or reblogs if necessary, systems online deserve to be safe just like anybody else.