We Have Three Big Ones And One Smaller Though Terrible One. Others Were Just Straight Up Not Enough Of

We have three big ones and one smaller though terrible one. Others were just straight up not enough of a problem we forgot them ( we have only slightly impaired, shared memory and that’s mostly cause adhd and plural weirdness )

1. Someone being essentially and unfortunately obsessed with a derivative of Moons source caused coming out as plural to a otherwise amazing group of three we considered close friends to have to turn into cutting them off because he couldn’t get that treating Moon like Moons the fictional character exactly and can be moulded into whatever story like them is not the greatest for fostering closeness and nobody else would talk about our plurality so we couldn’t just ask them to talk to him. Unfortunately prolonged because we were so close and kept going “one more chance” until it became clear nothing was changing for too long

2. After one of our members coming out as part of a system and a fictive of a character of interest, it went fine till a server merge into a pre-existing one which people were really careful about turned into a nightmare when Moon, as Moons first personal interaction in the new server was to try and matchmake/queue-play with a member of the server and in the middle of it people started asking inappropriate questions including the new servers owner. Trying to resolve it met us with blame shifting, plurality gatekeeping, tied fakeclaiming allegations and a nice “oh and I don’t think anyone believes you” “and yeah by the way you shouldn’t be in the server because of that and this probably going to continue” and nothing was done about it despite and especially considering the server owners were partners. We had to cut off so many people it’s not even funny

3. We were in a server we felt really comfortable in for the longest time without somehow mentioning our origin and got to be friends with everyone, including another system. Come to find out, they’re very vocally and radically anti endo and while we weren’t there to say anything turned a lot of people there that type of anti endo too, including the owner. We didn’t say anything for a while HOPING they’d change, part due to not having other servers to talk to most people in but eventually got two other servers we could and ended up leaving that one as we were tired of walking on eggshells there

4. Simple one and last mentioned- join a support server out of want for help for something- find out its vehemently and radically anti endo to the point of dogpiling people who even mention they’re endo before a rule was put up against it. Theres even a head mod who’s anti endo???

Moon takes the brunt of the blame for the first two and we haven’t really been able to help Moon get over it fully. Times healed a bit but it still hurts Moon

Sorry this is so long compared to the rest. It’s funny, for as much fakeclaiming we’ve avoided somehow we got sucker punched with three big other situations that stick with us HARD and one that’s just- really disheartening and weird

considering how prevalent pluralphobia / ableism against systems is, i feel like it doesn't get talked about enough to the point where i'm not sure if singlets even realize how rampant it is.

so, new reblog game for those willing to talk about it — if you're plural, reblog this post and tell me in the tags / add on etc. an example of singlets being bigoted towards you on account of your plurality.

i'll start: someone i was acquaintances with and had spoken to once or twice was, behind my back, threatening to sexually assault and murder me over the existence of a fictive of mine.

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I have that kind of plurality where I mostly hear other people talking in my head as them being co con with me and even when others do front I’m still there watching, which means a lot of things but what matters for this is that it means I get social anxiety whenever my headmates try to have fun which I’m sure is annoying to them so

Reblog this post if you’re okay with guy from shows talking in the reblogs of your posts about the shows or don’t I guess you don’t have to reblog it but it would maybe make me feel better to have a reminder that people really don’t care that much

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