she/her
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i guess u could say it made thrist trap for ur thirsty body
Just found out I was thirsty not by receiving a signal from my body about it but by dozing off and dreaming about cold water from different alluring angles. This is great. I think all my wants and needs should be revealed to me this way
i'm not crying, you are
It saddens me when people act like you cannot love anyone as deeply as you love your romantic partner. I know I have never felt the inclination to have one but people are so convinced that romance is the height of love, they think this means I will never fall in love.
But I have fallen in love, I am in love, and I fall deeper every day. I have looked at this girl as if she put the stars in the sky, stared into her eyes as if they held the secrets of the universe, felt as if the weight of the world had been lifted off my shoulders at the sound of her laugh. Why should the intensity of my love be decided by my desire to kiss her ? Why should I not let myself be entranced by her very existence simply because I do not want a romantic relationship with her ? I have fallen in love with this girl the moment I met her, over 6 years ago, and still fall deeper everytime she crosses my mind. Everytime I share a small smile or a look with a friend, that I lay a hand on their shoulder or lean against their side, I fall in love with them a little bit more. Everytime we spend hours just listening to one another rant about things no one else would want to hear about, I fall in love with them a little bit more. Everytime we share playful banter, have snowball fights even though we are now adults or do stupid things for the sole reason that it would amuse the other, I fall in love with them a little bit more. Everytime we send each other things, simply because our first thought when seeing them was of each other, I fall in love with them a little bit more. Is "I thought of you when you were not there because you never truly leave my mind" not the purest expression of love ? And I really do fall in love with them, bit by bit, until I can no longer imagine a life without them, until they seem to have put the stars in the sky, until their eyes hold the secrets of the universe and until the sound of their laugh lifts the world off my shoulders.
I never said I couldn't fall in love. What I said is that I didn't want romance. You were the one who decided to put barriers on something so boundless as love.
no because YES
queerplatonic is whatever those 3 middleaged animal men from ice age had btw. i hope you understand now
✨the irony✨
also you really cant let us have shit
The straights are mad about the amount of gayness in The Sandman
one time an classmate of mine, told me he had liked me for the last couple months and i panicked and just straight up ignored him for like a month.
i cant be the only one that wants someone to rip out my spine, crack it very deliciously and but it back.
lol
I think there's probably way more aros than is known / believed to be. Hear me out
Aromanticism is very unknown so people who might identify with the label probably don't because they don't know it
Misconceptions: people who know the label might think they're not aromantic because they're romance favorable / enjoy romance in fiction / enjoy romantic activities
Misconceptions pt. 2: people who might identify as aroallo can think that they're not aromantic because they're not asexual
Amatonormativity: people who could identify as aromantic may force themselves into relationships because that's what's expected of them and never even realize they don't feel any (romantic) attraction
Different types of attraction: people might mix up romantic attraction with, for example, alterous, aesthetic, or platonic attraction
Lack of representation: related to the first point I made, unlike other lgbtq+ identities (which don't even get a lot of representation tbh) there's almost no aro rep in media, which leads to a smaller number of people knowing about the existence of aromanticism
So yeah. That's my theory. There's probably more aros out there than you think.
yes yes
i agree.
!!!yess thank u
finally someone is speaking about it
Remember not to praise Disney itself for diversity and inclusion in new Baymax show. You should be thanking animators and directors for pushing this idea which Disney was probably 100% opposed to in the first place. Remember leaked emails written to Alex Hirsh? Don't get fooled.
I think I love tumblr the most bc I don't owe anyone anything. I can come on here and reblog the most unhinged ridiculous shit and then leave. I'm not giving any explanation.
reblog to make someone bisexual
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KILL HIM
i just love the idea of gay people sneaking into other peoples houses and stealing their cookies like little gremlins
one more sleep to pride month. everyone remember to leave your milk and cookies out for the gays tonight
how can u be so wholesome and so aggressive at the same time
fucking hate it when the stuff everybody says "actually works" does actually work.
hate exercising and realizing i've let go of a lot of anxiety and anger because i've overturned my fight-or-flight response.
hate eating right and eating enough and eating 3 times a day and realizing i'm less anxious and i have more energy
hate journaling in my stupid notebook with my stupid bic ballpoint and realizing that i've actually started healing about something once i'm able to externalize it
hate forgiving myself hate complimenting myself more often hate treating myself with kindness hate taking a gratitude inventory hate having patience hate talking to myself gently
hate turning my little face up to the sun and taking deep breaths and looking at nature and grounding myself and realizing that i feel less burdened and more hopeful, more actually-here, that i am able to see the good sides of myself more clearly, that i am able to see not only how far i have to grow - but also how much growth i have already done & how much of my life i truly fill with light and laughter and love
horrible horrible horrible. hate it but i'm gonna do it tho
i honestly think best part of tumblr is making a personal post and it getting zero notes. that’s like hundreds of people side eyeing you like ok i’m not touching that
I love this man 🥺❤️🖤
haku from spirited away be like:
fun fact
im weirdly knowlagable in the history of soda i dont even drink soda why do i know so much about it
booty shorts idea
