Honestly? Write Hank About This.

Honestly? Write Hank about this.

Like. I promise you, he WILL care

The fact that that scishow hrt video kind of quips outright about no one on the writing team taking feminizing hormones is what baffles me like was that not embarrassing to say? I feel like if a big science youtube channel made a video about a more general health topic and half way through implied that there were no women on the writing team you'd be like. "okay why are you joking about that. That kind of calls into question the accuracy of the information you're presenting and also the kind of workplace that is going on behind the scenes". But when it's specially about trans stuff they can just be like yeah we didn't speak to any trans women about that first part lol.

Yep. At least not taken seriously by normies. But this is why I have partners! :D

95% of my emails for work is written in the evning.

When I can get my partner to help me.

I am VERY good at cooding, system design and the politics to get good design accepted.

I am very bad at anything that involves "Just do it normally". I do not know what it means

Social rules, writing emails or accepting invitations... anything like that

Too mentally ill to be “normal,” too good at faking functionality for people to take my issues seriously.

Jealousy is like pain.

When you or your friends feel pain, you do 2 things.

1. You deal with the pain here and now. Taking painkillers for example.

2: You try to figure out why there is pain. Did your turn around wrong? Did you touch something sharp?

Do the exact same for jealousy

1: Treat it here and now. Tell your partners and when told, tell them they are loved, that they are safe. Hug them, comfort them.

2: Try to figure out why you are jealous. Are you afraid of getting left behind? Are you scared of loosing control over your partner?

Once you have an idea, you and your partners can take the time to reassure those fears. Having a rule about writing a message at certain times when going on a date with someone else. Having as many date nights with you as with anyone else.

But most importantly. TALKING about your jealousy with your partners.

Because that makes it slowly go away.

In monogamous OR polygamous relationships.

Ehhh.

Both have their pro's and con's

I DEFINITELY have bands and records I listen to because I know I like 100% of what I will hear.

But since I also want unusual and strange music, I sometimes find bands where I like 1-3 songs only.

But I WANT those bands to make the songs I do not like. They are part of the proccess of making the things I like.

Cannot get good art if there is no tolerance for bad art

"There's nothing rarer than liking every song on an album" y'all are listening to the wrong albums

I hope it all works out for you!

I hope you find answers to all your trouble and your workflow gets smoother!

I hope you find cheatsheets to help you and manage to write notes that helps you remember!

bitch java is so fucking annoying why does the S in String need to be capitalized but the i in int has to be in lowercase??? why do you need to import a whole ass module just to take an input from the user??? why are all the commands so fucking long and hard to remember??? JUST DIE

There these seemingly contradictory societal double binds that are used to enforce conformity.

Example: A Lesbian is told that "everyone is actually bi" while a bisexual woman is told to "pick a side". Seems contradictory but really they just want us to be straight lmao.

Another one: A woman who does not perform womanhood to society's standard is not a real woman vs. You can never change the gender you were born with. One is butchphobic/anti gnc women, the other is transphobic. Clearly both enforce transmisogyny.

The insidious thing is that these double binds also foster inter community division. Its easy to hear one side of these, for example: "everyone is a little bi" and assume that means bisexuality is more accepted. But on the other side bisexual people are getting the same shit.

None of these are contradictory when you realize that bigots simply don't want lgbtq+ to exist at all.