Y'know, One Thing I Don't See Get Talked About Much In Regards To Asexuality Is How It Feels To Never

y'know, one thing i don't see get talked about much in regards to asexuality is how it feels to never be 'sexually motivated' by anything

and not just when it comes to advertisements using 'sexy' models to try and sell you stuff, but like. in general

sex as a favor, sex as a bribe, sex in exchange for whatever

casual sex, 'friends with benefits' situations, even simple flirting

it all looks a whole lot different from the perspective of someone who's immune to manipulation via sex appeal, who has virtually no understanding as to why sex would motivate someone to cheat on their partner, etc. etc.

sex is worthless to me

i mean, it's useful as a story element in fiction, but it genuinely perplexes me that sex is such a driving force behind so many aspects of irl society & of people's individual lives, for better or for worse

and that it's so deeply ingrained into how the average person views the world & various situations, because the average person feels sexual attraction, whereas i do not

i think the barrier between aces & allos is actually even deeper than it seems on the surface at times, because it's more than just the grating expectation that everyone must want to 'settle down' and have kids, it's also the fact that the majority of the world is sort of 'in' on a joke that aces will never truly be a part of

[2021]

Pretty boy Hazuki

unfinished bc it’s 2am but i love you mickey mouse

happy 100 posts

Come on, Malleus, have some pity, this boy’s only way of dealing with attraction is probably something along the lines of “have a mental breakdown screaming into a fireplace, then fall unconscious”.

savin this for later :]

Here ya go! The only one I’m unsure about is Idia’s bc I don’t know if it’s all that accurate

Riddle - Dollhouse

Leona - Pacify Her

Azul - Crybaby

Jamil - Play Date

Vil - Show and Tell

Idia - Soap

Malleus - Pity Party

Yuu - Mad Hatter

All of these are 100% accurate