
Positivity blog started December 2020 š Come relax for awhile š Comet / 24 / they-them
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the phrase āthis is my first time being aliveā has done wonders for me recently. Yeah, I donāt know how to navigate this situation! Itās brand new to me and Iām learning on the fly, arenāt humans such wonderfully adaptive creatures?
Idk if you want to change literally nothing about yourself, not even your pronouns, and just identify differently i still consider you trans. Literally doesn't matter to me. It hurts more trans people to exclude people who are happily identifying as trans than it benefits. You use she/her and like pink and skirts but also like being agender? Idgaf welcome to the club. I love you
Merry pride! You belong in this world exactly as you are. You are loved, and you deserve love for your queerness. Let your heart guide your way.

I love seasonal fruits they're like girl we're back lol
from now on your tumblr nickname is whatever you get from this sexual identity generatorĀ ā
If you go into all of your interactions with love, you don't have to worry about how others will react. Everyone needs to be loved, accepted, and treated with kindness.
If you are genuinely being kind and going into conversations looking to do no harm and someone acts mean to you, they're probably really struggling with something, or you have differences that you both can learn from.
Everyone has something they need to say to someone else. Everyone has something they need to hear.
Don't be intimidated by what can go wrong- it can always be turned into a learning experience. It's better to try. Ask others how they are doing, honestly. Bring something to a group of people that everyone can enjoy. Listen to others without judgment first before you draw your conclusions. We are all so lonely and so ready to connect.

Grumpydoodleprincess
āno oneās ever mad at me unless they tell me soā is the best assumption iāve ever made
need a full body massage a margarita 400mg of ibuprofen a plate of brownies at least an hour in a jacuzzi and 20,000 dollars cash
happy birthday to ash!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Happy World Goth Day!
Remember, there is no one way to be goth.
Be aware of the bands that helped form the subculture (Bauhaus, Siouxsie, The Cure, etc.), but also know there are all sorts of goth music subgenres, so explore!
Goth is for everyone. If someone tells you that you have to be thin, white, young, able-bodied, etc. to be a Real Goth, ignore them. They're wrong.
Goth fashion is based in DIY and combining random bits until you have a look that makes you happy. Goth fashion isn't about spending huge amounts of money at various big 'goth lifestyle' websites.
Always support indie bands, artists, clothing designers, jewelers, etc. when you can. Posting about/promoting them is support!
With much love,
Auntie Jilli

"I cant draw" then do it bad who gives a fuck.....
Ryo Suzuri, I don't know where you are but you would love Sleep Token
"No one wants to see art of ocs" If I dont see art of peoples ocs at least once a day I DIE. Do you want that to happen? Do you want me to DIE? Draw your ocs.
if youāre offline or away and i message you something (like a link to a meme or a picture or w/e) honestly just assume that iām just leaving it there for when you get back and not expecting you to answer straight away. i donāt need you to respond withĀ āhey, sorry, i wasnāt at the computer!ā or anything. i was leaving u a gift for later.

Reblog to hug prev poster (they need a hug)

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š„ NEW ZINE JUST DROPPED!š„
It's an autobiographical comic about living by myself, partner-free, with posi vibes! 24 pages!
PDF available on ITCH.io:
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The way you change your immediate reactions to things is that you catch yourself having an uncharitable/bigoted/overly judgmental thought and you catch it and replace it and then you do that a hundred times a day for your whole life and eventually one day like five years later you realize that you think differently now and youāll always be working on something but thatās how life goes and thatās fine.