If You're Gonna Have A Weird Unnecessary Harem Situation At Least Have Some Variety In There. Like It

harem trope tbh i kind of hate the harem trope usually reverse harems too but i feel like those are done better more often so sometimes theyre ok there's just so many girls (because it's always a guy and yk heteronormacy) who like this totally average guy he can be op in one way or another but a lot of the time either his personality sucks or he's weak (often he's both regular nice and really strong tho) and at 90% of the girls he meets fall head over heels for him for no particular reason often dubious morality like a huge age gap or something is there too and they're almost always super jealous of each other and way to conscious about him coming into contact with other girls and if they're not jealous then they're like 'we'll share him I'll be glad to be his concubine 💕' which is usually more tolerable than extreme jealousy but also has weird vibes for stereotyping and objectification of women girls etc. anyways yeah. i happen to like a genre that often has a lot of these harem trope things i suffer every day i cannot tell you how many series i have quit reading because i just couldn't stand the unnecessary weird harem thing i cheer every time i become certain it's monogamous and there is a defined love interest not even because i hate polygamy i actually was polyamorous questioning for a long time (until i figured out im aroace and just like having friends) it's just that the non-monogamy is always weird and unbalanced because it's a super shallow harem situation idc if your romance is a little shallow but at some point it's just objectification anyways yeah if you're gonna make everyone pointlessly fall in love with a random average guy then at least make one non-hetero serious pursuer of romance and by serious i mean not like purely sex-focused or there as a gag like being a ridiculous admirer of the random guy's muscles that's one i think i actually see a lot i mean but if he's so incredibly attractive that every female in the world is in love with him then there's gotta be at least one gay person who thinks he's really hot right?