Stolas Is A Rapist Who Plays The Victim When Called Out On His Bullshit. There, I Said It.

Stolas is a rapist who plays the victim when called out on his bullshit. There, I said it.

I'm so sick of this fandom acting like Stolas is better than the other Goetias when it's just not true.

Stolas may love Octavia, but he's a neglectful dad and doesn't keep his promises to her.

Stolas may have been raised by his Imp butler, but that doesn't stop him from abusing and fetishizing other imps.

At the end of the day, Stolas isn't much different from other Goetias.

People who don’t tag their ships in their fics so that they can trick people who don’t like their ships into reading their fics are the same as the people who trick people into eating things that they’re allergic to so that they can go, ‘See! You’re not really allergic!’

My elder arospec experience is remembering pre-2015 tumblr and how the asexual community threw arospecs under the bus because they were desperate to prove to allos that asexual doesn’t equal aromantic and that asexuals can still ‘love’. And then the asexual community realised that there’s plenty of aphobia for both of our communities, and that throwing arospecs under the bus did not help them at all.

I’m glad it’s gotten a bit better, but hopefully it can get better still :)

My arospec experience is being one of those people who calls everyone things like bestie, diva, sugar, babycakes, but I don’t mean it in a romantic way and I don’t want people to think that I’m trying to get with them

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My aro experience is telling strangers that I’m gay because no one pressures gay women to date men, but somehow people think that it’s still ok to pressure aros into dating at all

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Paranoia culture is please oh please dear god don’t look at me why are you looking at me are you trying to scope me out go away

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