A While Back My Pharmacist Saw My Deadname On My Profile And Accidentially Called It Out, He Corrected

A while back my pharmacist saw my deadname on my profile and accidentially called it out, he corrected and deleted my deadname from the system so only my preferred name shows up now. There was a crowd of people behind me, so as he hands over the pills he apologized, in equal tone and volume as when he called my deadname and lied saying it's been a long day and he didn't mean to call out -his own- name. I quietly told him it was fine and he didn't need to do that for my sake.

His response: "No, it's my name now."

I went to the pharmacist yesterday, his nametag is my deadname. He informed me he's immigrating and in the process he's changed his first name to my deadname to have an English sounding name. That's why he's now able to get a reprint of his nametag to be my deadname. And repeated, with the intense seriousness of someone who is going to die on this hill: "It's mine now. Not yours. I'm taking." His tone indicated that decision is final.

Bro literally deadnamed me once, and has committed to flat out stealing my deadname. It's his now. Legally. Officially. I over heard his co-workers call him by the name.

A nti

S ocial

M ersonality

R isorder

comic about isolation and trauma

When i get rich i will commission a lot of artists to do stuf for me just u wait u starving artists

get a sad broke indie band to make me a song abt fish with legs and i will become invincible

Ok, so I’ve been reading all the sex blogs and they all talk about how okay it is to be gay and straight and bisexual and asexual and have sex however you like, but I don’t care about hundreds of hypothetical people and their hypothetical sex deals, I care about me, and my sex deal! What about my problems?

kind of sucks that himbo is like a cute fun word that describes a likeable dumb sexy guy that people use in a positive jokey way whereas bimbo is a hugely misogynistic derisive term from pornography that declares a woman to be a brainless sex object. sorta makes himbo feel like less of a cute word and reminds you that even when you’re trying to apply the same objectification to men it doesn’t stick nearly the same way bc they aren’t dehumanized and derided the same way women are, not even close