Still Not Off My Soapbox Yet Because People Also Expect People Who Were Abused In Childhood To Have Kids

still not off my soapbox yet because people also expect people who were abused in childhood to have kids too. as someone who went through childhood abuse, i do not think i would be a fit parent. some people just know what’s right for themselves and we need to stop disrespecting people and their choices. there are 8 BILLION people on the earth, i think it’ll be fine if a few people choose not to have children.

it's silly because i'm adamantly against having kids myself, i don't want them and i never have, yet i feel immensely guilty when people tell me i would be a good mom, because no i won't! i don't have the patience, i don't want the responsibility, it's just not for me. idk, a part of me feels like i'd be wasting my life by not raising a new one. agh.

A sluts gotta do what a sluts gotta do

I feel like not enough people bring up the Jewish part of falsettos. I've seen some people completely ignore the fact that they're Jewish. I've even seen someone say that them being Jewish has nothing to do with the story so it's ok to hc the characters as being Christian (this happens with whizzer mainly). Which is wrong, them Jewish, is the whole second act. It's also really important to have queer Jewish representation. I feel like a lot of these takes tend to be on Tiktok for some reason. But idk that's just a few things I've seen.

had a friend just tell me to stop listening to falsettos bc it keeps showing up on their airbuds 😭😭😭

watched falsettos, marvin looks kinda like sad spongebob in this frame

and i did!!!

i think i wanna change my url again guys 😕