Sorry, I Had To.

Sorry, I had to.

This is the episode description:

The writers are aware of Stolas faults and they will probably address it. Stolas dialogue just shows that his development isn’t complete yet.

But since this episode and likely the next one are focused on Blitzø’s internal problem (cause let’s be real, even if Stolas was the perfect partner Blizø would still sabotage their relationship) his self awareness problem won’t be solved until later on.

Plus it makes sense that Blitzø’s behavior is the first one to be addressed. Stolas is mostly willing to listen, but not if he is being screamed at. When Blitzø learns how to treat others he will be able to communicate better with Stolas and explain how he unintentionally looked down on him.

Stolas wants to learn and do better. He has done a lot of self reflection but it’s not enough for him to figure out all problems.

He needs a separate episode for him to figure out the micro aggressions, but that won’t happen until the end of the season or season 3. It might take even more time because racism/classism takes time to unlearn.

What’s important right now is that the writers are aware of the problem.

Don't get me wrong, I love Stolas. He's had amazing character development, I was glad to see him happy and thriving with the new guy in Apology tour and all that.

BUT

WHEN HAS HE EVER?

WHEN HAS HE FUCKING EVER?

Look Blitzø has fucked up and I don't think anyone's denying that. BUT SO HAS STOLAS. And I find it hypocritical to dismiss parts of his character just because they were at the start of the show.

Stolas DID look down on Blitzø. Maybe unintentionally yes, but he still did so and the fact that so many people insist that he did not PISS ME OFF.

Why is there no Veronica van Vamp skullector doll?

I feel like we are missing an opportunity here.

They say trans people and drag queens are targeting children, but the ones who do it are people like Andrew Tate. I hate how the Manosphere targets little boys and young males.

Most kids lack maturity and critical thinking skills, so they just regurgitate whatever their figures of authority say. With young males, they are literally exploiting their insecurities and selling their misogynistic agenda as the solution to all problems.

I know this guy, he is autistic, young, doesn’t know how to interact with women and has no friends. He was an easy target and got sucked into their agenda, that ended trapping him in a circle of loneliness.

People rejected him because of autism, he turned into bigotry and now the few people who were trying to be friends with him distanced themselves because of the bigotry. For context the group who wanted to be friends with him was composed by one black, bi guy, me (biracial bi girl) and one gay guy, we were all fed up with him.

Dumbest thing about me is that I question whether I’m really on the asexual spectrum or if I just hate everybody from my school.

Both are likely.

I hate when people insist that every person should engage in political debates.

Disclaimer, I’m talking about my personal experience, if you wanna use this as a way to say to invalidate other autistic people who are more comfortable debating than I am, fuck off.

I’m autistic, one of the symptoms of my disorder is a strong sense of justice, which is really just a badly explained way of saying I have very strong convictions that are hard to change. Also have emotional dysregulation, so I care a lot about things most people find insignificant.

Whenever I have to argue with someone with another opinion they always say I’m not acknowledging their points enough, which is often a punch in the gut because I try my best to no be so stubborn.

If someone makes a comment I think it’s wrong or of poor taste I’ll either protest and pick up a pointless fight or I’ll stop talking completely to avoid conflict while thinking about this tiny comment over and over again.

Furthermore if time passes and we aren’t coming to an agreement I start getting stressed, I’ll repeat my points and in the worst case scenario I’ll have a meltdown.

I can and do engage with political content, but debating is hard and quite upsetting sometimes. My inability to properly do that makes me feel ridiculous, but I have to accept there isn’t a lot I can do about it, it’s called disability for a reason.