I Hope Youre Doing Fine Dear :((( Stay Safe! Have You Tried Contacting Tumblr Support?

I hope you’re doing fine dear :((( stay safe! Have you tried contacting tumblr support?

Howdy Anon! I am doing just fine, my heart hurts though because I knew how many people appreciated what I wrote and now I have to start over again!! 😭 I am staying about as safe as I can lol and yes I have contacted them and they said that they can’t restore deactivated blogs :’)

I have no idea how it happened, I can only assume I got hacked or the rare chance that someone i know went through all this trouble to delete my blog so :’)

I was just on the hanayama kaoru tag going waaaay back.

How have I not seen this before??? this is gorgeous wtf

Every time Hanayama shows up, my hype for him increases...

. . . Dawg

These,,, these are not real people. They’re fictional. I know that’s not the problem here but still. Arguing over a made up person saying ‘they would never do that’ or ‘it goes against what the author put into the story’ is childish. I don’t just see this in the baki and Kengan fandoms, I see it with literally everything that I interact with. And they are all just people’s thoughts.

I’m gonna try to stay as neutral as possible about this, only because I can see both sides. As someone who takes to writing as a coping mechanism and a way to anonymously get my thoughts out and share them with people (hence the ask button) there are certain things that I don’t want to see. I follow all the baki and Kengan tags (it’s a problem really :)) but I know what I do and don’t want to read or see. If I see a blog that posts to the main tag with things that I don’t favor, I hope that they have a ‘click to expand’ thingy, maybe a warning in advance, and just keep scrolling.

If scrolling past is not your thing, block them. I get it. People make other people uncomfy. Its how the world works. It’s almost like you’ll never see them in real life and have a conversation with them. And even if you did, the chance that they bring up their kinks and what they’re into is slim to none. There is no reason to bash people for how they feel. It’s their life, don’t try to control it. Just control yours.

Put warnings. The use of a trigger warning I think is overused but if it keeps people who actually have visceral reactions to the things being written, put it. In the tags, at the beginning of the writing, in your pinned post on your blog, everywhere you can to prevent people from seeing things they would rather not read. Expand on what you write without making others uncomfortable without too much detail so people know what they’re getting into.

Why the judgment? From anyone? Not even going into the writing part of it. It isn’t anyone’s right to degrade and judge someone for how they think. There is no reason to get onto someone for what they write, how they act, what they draw. Be as respectful as possible. Block them instead of purposely keeping them unblocked to keep the ball rolling. There’s no point. We’re all adults. Why aren’t we acting like it.

11-yr old brother: Hey Sis, where do you work?

Me: I work at a plant clinic in (my college campus), I figure out why plants are sick and how to make them better

Brother: so you’re a plant doctor?

Me: Basically

Brother: That’s boring

Me: (Very suddenly feeling the urge to prove myself to my little brother that I am one of the coolest people he knows in his entire life now and forever)

Me: …

Me: I work with microscopes

Brother: OH MY GO-

Lmao dawg even my therapist is upset that I lost my account :’)

This is gonna be rough tuff real stuff

Heyy, sorry your stuff got deleted :( Hope you can build back your blog quickly. I was wondering if you could do a Nitoku with a dyslexic s/o, please?

Thank you, I hope that asks come back so that I can!! Thank you for the first ask since the demolition of my blog 🥴 I am not dyslexic so please correct me if I get something wrong or if something just doesn't make sense :)

Nitoku x Dyslexic! S/O

Nitoku with a significant other that has dyslexia is hilarious I think

An aspiring writer and his loving, dyslexic partner.

He is constantly finding new ways to help you and asks you to read over his works as practice to help you get better.

He comes up with a reward system for you to better recognize the differences between letters.

A pat on the head here or a verbal praise there, although those are rare since he is more focused on what you think of his writing.

"Good job hun"

"That's it, remember q's have a c(qu)urly tail"

In the end he is very proud of you when you are doing so well. He sees it as him being such a great teacher and you such an eager student.

The more you learn, the better you get with consistency and the more his ego is boosted.

If you happen to have a poor day or your energy is just down a bit and you aren't doing so hot with your practice, he will take it a bit easier.

And if it gets pretty bad or the effort just isn't helping with your understanding, he will suggest a break

He wants you to want to get better at recognizing the patterns and that can't happen when you are unmotivated.

So he will make you some food, which will probably not be the best, so he takes you out to the resturaunt down the street to make you feel better and get your energy back up.

After that it turns into a cuddle session when you two get back to his shack.

He will ask you to go take a shower and get ready for the evening and while you're away, he writes.

He writes anything he can think of regarding oyu and how you have made his life much more interesting.

Probably some kind of cheesy poem or love letter.

"I know fighting is difficult. Me with others, you with words. But the most important thing to know is that we are fighting them together."

You come back and read it and you can understand what he is trying to say, but... "I don't help you fight other people?"

"You know what I mean."

You love him and his stupid love language and you two go to bed together full, content, and happy with today's work.

Considering the amount of time that i have been writing and the opportunity to create a new aesthetic with my blog, you would think that I have an idea of what I want my blog to look like. But no. Nothing. Oh well. I really hope you like it! I am on vacation rn so i am trying to get to my other ask as soon as possible! (AKA please for the love of god give me more requests. I am dying not doing anything for a week :))