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就应你说的吧。从今往后，天下英雄永不陌路。 I accept your advice. From this day on, heroes will always look out for each other.
It’s okay to let someone comfort you. (I struggle with this super bad) You don’t have to always keep your feelings to yourself. You’re not childish for wanting someone to hold you when you’re sad or crying. Physical comfort is not dirty or inappropriate. You’re not gross for wanting to be hugged and held. It’s okay to need to be comforted, it’s a hard expectation to deal with everything alone. You are allowed to express these things. It’s okay if you don’t want to be physically comforted, having someone sit with you is just as good.
It’s the time of the year again where I want to change my appearance and/or personality
Just in case any of my plushies loving neurodivergent followers needed to hear this today:
Sleeping with plushies is good.
Talking to plushies is good.
Taking plushies everywhere with you is good, out in public and all.
Collecting plushies is good. There is no such thing as too many plushies.
Plushies are good. They are the best.
This is so me and the guilt I feel can eat me alive sometimes
Anyone else just start crying when they like one stuffed animal better than another, and try to learn to love the one you like less? Like I feel so bad when i hug one of my stuffed animals to sleep and not another. (Also anyone who says anything bad about stuffed animals will be instantly blocked.)
this year’s trend is ‘male lead is an absolute dumbass with tsundere tendencies who is also 100% whipped and even admits so on occasion, to himself only and under heavy denial about it being anyhow related to his feelings while the female lead is badass and simply there to make the male lead’s life easier but she clearly refuses to do so because of the previous statement that she is heavily in denial about even caring about the male lead in the first place, and she is an idiot’
between "i will fuck you so good you will never forget" and "So your heart doesn't race if we're not touching? Even when you're with me? That's disappointing" love this new horny direction kdramas are going
during the day im like “im gonna get my organic chemistry masters degree and start up an art side business, let’s carpe the diem” but at night i lie in bed and im like “maybe i should drop out and live off the grid or work at a small locally owned bookstore or something” and i can’t decide which version of me i should listen to
woo young woo drawings at the end of each episode
Studio Ghibli Wallpapers
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extraordinary attorney woo + jane austen textposts/tweets (1/?)
Lee Junho being okay with not being able to hold Youngwoo's hand the moment she says it's very uncomfortable for her. It's Youngwoo who suggests holding hands, or trying to, at least, even if for those 57 seconds. And Junho's endearing, sweet sweet smile when she says that agrees to it.
Junho saying it's okay when she barely pulls a thirty second hand-holding and saying it's okay, we can hold hands next time.
Lee my-feelings-aren't-temporary Junho who is distressed at finding out the story about the Stonewall path and immediately suggests stopping to walk and going somewhere else because my man's brain stops working anytime someone suggests pulling him and Youngwoo apart 😭😭😭
Lee Junho noticing that Youngwoo is being very uncomfortable in the courtroom and noticing the way she keeps fiddling with her hands.
Lee Junho who knows he still likes (loves) Youngwoo but doesn't laugh at Youngwoo's innocent question of "Do you still like me?" And instead answers with a "Yes, I do", albeit he cannot resist teasing her by telling her she hurt his feelings and making sure she knows he's teasing.
Lee Junho who perhaps finds it a little funny that Youngwoo has a folder of date ideas but being delighted in the fact that the list is long 😭😭😭
Lee Junho who asks if taking her home is written in the file or not, and suggests with starting something as simple as that to make her comfortable and to have long talks and get to know her better.
LEE JUNHO WHO TELLS HIS FRIENDS YOUNGWOO AND HIM ARE ON A DATE AND THAT SHE'S A LAWYER!!! A PROUD BF!!!
LEE JUNHO, WHO, DESPITE BEING TIPSY/DRUNK, IS FUCKING ENRAGED TO FIND OUT PEOPLE THINK IT'S SYMPATHY THAT HE HAS FOR YOUNGWOO AND NOT LOVE. NICE AND KIND LEE JUNHO WHO FUCKING LOSES IT ENOUGH TO THROW HANDS WHILE BEING PLASTERED BECAUSE HE HASN'T ONCE LOOKED AT HER IN SYMPATHY BUT AS A COMPLETE WOMAN HE TRULY LOVES.
Lee Junho who understands why Youngwoo took the case and doesn't put her feelings down. Who listens when Youngwoo says "when you have a disability, I think merely liking someone is not enough. because even if I say it's love, if other people say it's not, then it's not."
Lee Junho responds with a sincere "Even if other people say it's not, if you say it's love, it's love."
LEE JUNHO WHO DOESN'T MISS A BEAT IN RESPONDING WITH "YES." WHEN YOUNGWOO SAYS "LOVING ME IS HARD. BUT ARE YOU STILL GOING TO?"
Lee Junho who soooooo wants to kiss her and steps in closer when the lights go off but comes to his senses and takes a step back when the lights are on, because he knows Youngwoo might be uncomfortable and might not want to be touched/kissed.
LEE JUNHO WHO WAITS UNTIL YOUNGOO PUTS HER HANDS ON HIS SHIRT AND LOOKS HIM IN THE EYE AND GIVES HER CONSENT AND KISSING HER ONLY THEN.
Lee Junho who doesn't laugh at Youngwoo's inexperience about love and kissing and instead tells her tips on how to kiss better so that she's comfortable in doing so.
Just...just Lee Junho y'all.
Just Lee Junho not being a green flag but an entire fucking forest. Lee Junho, a man written by a woman.
An ordinary, middle-class guy with an ordinary job who is understanding, sincere, loving and committed to his woman. The man of every woman's dream.
This is the reason why everyone is nuts for him.
Just Lee Junho y'all.
"I have something to say. I like you. I like you so much that it feels like I'm sick inside."
this man is so sick for saying this. like he says such things while looking so sincere and we know he actually means it. this is it. this fictional man is the standard. pack it up kdrama male leads.
#RIP Jane Austen you would have loved Lee Jun Ho.
In all genuineness, I fucking wanna cry at how much people are loving the romance between Jun-Ho and Young-Woo.
A majority of people I've seen are neurotypical/allistic, but everyone's talking about Jun-Ho being a smooth sweetheart and Young-Woo being brave with her feelings like any other drama, except this is a neurotypical man/autistic woman.
It's the normalization, it's the acknowledgement that he loves her for her, it's everything
Studio Ghibli room aesthetics part 4:
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Studio Ghibli Room aesthetics part 2:
Studio Ghibli room aesthetics part 1:
Love exist but it doesn’t exist for me
genshin impact as anime ✨ 🍃
Here's the ADHD Checklist! I finally made it, it's originally from this post. But I've put it in a more easy to read manner.
Requested by: @partykeet I hope this helps!
If you don't know if you have ADHD or not but have an inkling you might, these are important questions to consider when self diagnosing and researching into the disorder!
Executive Dysfunction
Do you struggle with getting things done?
Do you mean to do it and you don’t?
Do you feel overwhelmed by trying to do it?
Do you forget to do it?
Do you feel like you can’t for whatever reason?
Emotional Dysregulation
Are you often told you’re overemotional?
Are you told you overreact?
Do you feel like you can’t control your emotions?
Do you often go from one emotion to the next?
Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD)
Do you react strongly without meaning to?
Do you get really depressed after wearing yourself out?
Do you feel awful after someone’s criticized you?
Do you often spiral when something goes wrong?
Do you feel like you can perk back up when that person asks you what’s wrong?
Delayed Sleep Phase Syndrome
Do you have a hard time waking up?
Do you have a hard time going to bed?
Do you have very vivid dreams?
Are you aggressive and irritable when someone wakes you up (for like, school)?
Do you struggle keeping a consistent sleep schedule over vacation or summer break, even on the weekends?
Inattention(Dissociation) and Hyperfocus
Do you often zone out?
Do you daydream?
Do you get disinterested often?
Do you feel like you can multitask (listen to music and read at the same time)?
Do you get so absorbed in something that when you return to reality, hours have passed by?
Hyperfixation and Emotional Hyperarousal
Do you have “obsessions” or things that feel incredibly pleasurable/taste good when you interact with them?
Do you have a loud mind that runs a thousand miles a minute?
Do you feel overwhelmed or stressed out by your mind?
Do you overthink or overanalyze things?
Is your head really foggy or thoughts blurry?
Working Memory, Inattention and Object Permanence
Do you seem to have memory problems?
Like you cant remember something someone told you to do (homework, chores)?
Or you easily lose things, having it just been there?
Do you forget that things exist after having them put away?
Do you forget important things like birthdays, dates and numbers, but remember other “trivial” things?
Do you have a hard time remembering the past or your childhood?
Stimulation and Stimming
Does listening to music help you get things done?
Do you need to watch something while you’re eating and get distracted if you don’t?
Do you feel dissociated or distracted when you can’t listen to music or have your phone out?
Do you constantly fidget, shake your legs, play with parts of things?
Do you feel like if you try to stop fidgeting, you’ll feel an urge to do it more?
Do you have a million phone games?
Do you feel like some games aren’t enough to play on their own but some are too much that you can’t focus on anything else?
"Money Blindness" and Impulsivity
Do you have trouble with money when given control over it?
Do you spend money on things other people find pointless or useless?
Do you have trouble with microtransactions?
Do you feel like when you buy something that you’ll have enough money left for things you need?
Are you often broke? Especially if you claimed that you would save money?
Do you often feel like the consequences of buying something aren't that serious?
Time Blindness
Do you have a hard time keeping track of time?
Do you feel like you’re often late to things?
If not, do you have anxiety, and often panic about the time?
Do you often have a hard time keeping a schedule?
Do people say you have poor time management skills, but no matter what you do, you can’t fix it?
Habits, Executive Dysfunction and Disorganization
Do you have poor hygiene?
Do you struggle to remember to brush your teeth?
Is it hard taking a bath/shower? If so, does it take a long time to get into the bath or shower?
If left to your own devices do you wear the same outfit for days?
Do you often look disheveled despite trying to be organized and clean?
Do you often rub off makeup or have messy hair?
Do you try to be organized but no matter what, you can’t?
Boundaries, RSD, and Volume Control
Do you struggle with boundaries?
Do you have a hard time controlling your volume (either too loud or too quiet)?
Do you feel like you’ve ruined everything when someone tells you that you did something wrong?
Do you think you’ve offended people when you haven't?
Do you have a hard time judging reality correctly (like you think you’ve offended or hurt someone and you feel awful but it didn’t bother them that much)?
Disclaimer: Don't say someone who self diagnoses is faking. If you relate to these questions and symptoms, you definitely are not faking. ADHD is a disability that is incredibly hard to manage. People who have it don't like it as they have likely struggled all their life. Being undiagnosed and unmedicated is damaging and traumatizing. Be kind to people, especially if they don't have access to medical help.