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Mood of the Board: Flowers & Fruit

hi bambi! your time to SHINEEEEEE <3

ok so please give me some scenarios where i will meet my dream boyfriend because i want it to be as special as i cann

MY ANGEL HI <33 omfg i love how u said that, u are SOO CUTE

i need more info if that’s okay so i can help you out better!! like what type of person are you like? and what’s your dream boyfriend like? is he an introvert, extrovert? is he outgoing or nonchalant? or you don’t have the perfect vision? you don’t have to answer all LOL i’ll try to put a few things together with what you give me.

if he’s:

an introvert/nonchalant: he’ll gain courage to talk to you and ask a polite question like if he can sit next to you or shyly give you a compliment

scene 2: he can be introduced to you by a friend while you’re hanging out with your circle and he’ll just be enchanted with you from first sight; always looking at you while he’s talking, holds eye contact longer, a gentleman holding doors, pulling out chairs, makes sure you’re safe and not alone, walks on the outside of the sidewalk, slows down when y’all are walking so he’s beside you, it very careful and cautious around you because he doesn’t want to make a wrong move and scare you off, compliments, has nickname set, etc. but JUST YOUU.

outgoing and confident: he’ll come up to you and give you a nickname on the spot depending on what you look like. (something cute that corresponds to ur fit, if ur dressed all cute, he’ll call u angel or something u like. friends that i’ve met in the city have called me red/rockstar (my red hair lmao)

if you’re a big city person, you can manifest meeting him out and about with your friend, you see him and notice he was already looking at you first 😫😫😫😫

either way y’all will have the best convo of your LIFEEE and instantly click with how genuine he is.

this next one is something that’s going to happen to me later in the summer so wink wink, steal this if you like it.

you can be at a family/invited event at a 5 star hotel, wearing ur BEST fit, you both catch each other’s eyes, a string of events happen that make u both walk up to eachother, start a convo, ask him if he knew ur family or something and he says no i’m the owner 😫😫🫶 LMFAO

or if you tend to stay to yourself, you can be sitting at a cafe reading a book, he can buy u a coffee, sit at your table. ??? do u like these ideas 😫

Don't self-isolate because you feel too awkward, anxious or afraid that you will bother others. You deserve to have friends and to be loved. Don't give up on being social, no matter how nerve wrecking it might get, with practice it will get easier to socialize.

what are some of your favourite books?

more book talk, i love it here <33

fiction:

hook, line, and sinker

the silent patient

the sweetest oblivion

frankenstein

off campus series

normal people

red mercedes (ff)

peaches*

my year of rest and relaxation

scream for us

when heroes fall

lilah*

gaslight*

over my dead body*

priest

the saints devil*

top floor*

deviance*

ace de luca + aria de luca

birthday girl 🫣

love unexpected

* = wattpad / soon to be published

non-fiction:

digital minimalism !!

deep work !!

48 laws of power

rites of lucifer ♡

lilith dark feminine archetype ♡

101 essays that will change the way you think

the girls’ book of glamour + the girls’ book: how to be the best at everything + the daring book for girls

ten arguments for deleting your social media accounts right now

atomic habits

the modern lady’s guide to elegance and charm

your brain on porn: internet pornography and the emerging science of addiction

talking back to facebook: the commons sense guide to raising kids in the digital age

the simple parenting guide to technology: practical advice on smartphones, gaming and social media in just 40 pages

the tech diet for your child & teen: the 7-step plan to unplug & reclaim your kid’s childhood (and your family’s sanity)

reset your child’s brain: a four week plan to end meltdowns, raise grades, and boost social skills by reversing the effects of electronic screen time

pls tell me ur favs as well! ♡

~become ‘that girl’ at school~

schoolwork:

study hard

take cute notes

get good grades

stay out of drama

be respectful and kind to everyone

work hard and stay motivated

appearance:

keep a neat appearance

put effort into your outfits

have healthy hair

make sure your nails are always manicured

try a teeth-whitening toothpaste (highly recommend!)

find a signature scent to keep in your bag

simple makeup also works- just curl your lashes and wear mascara

overall:

have a good school/life balance

try new things

stay positive

be yourself!

if there are some things to take into 2022, let it be these ♡

be unapologetically yourself.

those who stick with you, are meant for you. the only person you need validation from is you. don’t change for others. doing so will only distance yourself from your true, authentic self. listen to music you like, no matter how sporadic the genres are! wear the clothes you find cute, different and cool even if it’s not “trending”. trends die but you and your amazing taste is forever!! change for YOU. do what makes YOU happy. <3

learn how to respect your own boundaries.

learn how to say no. learn how to say yes. change is uncomfortable but so is growth. how do you expect to be successful and get farther into your journey if you don’t say yes to amazing opportunities because fear stops you? how do you expect to be strong and unapologetically yourself if you don’t say no to the people who keep stepping all over you? maintain a balance. set boundaries— with others and yourself. if i can do it, so can you. you deserve to set yourself free.

self discipline is the strongest form of self love.

discipline is the key. stop waiting for *countless* motivation. slumps happen. it’s normal. feel your emotions but you know what? you will always get back up on your feet. no matter how long it takes. you’ll get there. this goes for everything. people, old habits, etc. don’t let your negative thoughts ruin you when you come across a slump. feel them but don’t give them power.

motivation can only take you so far. it’s pleating. one slump after another, i soon realized that motivation is often the result of action, not the cause of it. you simply just have to start and not rely on anything but you and the discipline you enforce to achieve your goals. you see one amazing manifestation success story? great. now stop looking for even more validation. you know it’s possible. so go and apply the law, angel. THAT is the discipline I’m talking about.

it doesn’t matter how “small” the step is, you are still moving! find yourself struggling with intrusive thoughts and old limiting beliefs? discipline! tell yourself it’s okay it happens then move on knowing you have all the power.

what you seek is seeking you.

you are capable of living your dream life. you know what’s stopping you though? you. only you. your fear of change because it seems uncomfortable, your refusal to see how much power you hold over your life, the guilt from telling yourself that you don’t deserve it. open and allow yourself to see that everything you’ve ever wanted is NOT impossible. you can do this. if others can have it, why not you? what you desire is meant for you. it’s out there.

this is all: self love.

treat yourself with care. do it out of love for you. manifest that dream lifestyle, your dream career, dream house, dream appearance because you deserve it! cut those toxic people off so you’re no longer surrounded by their energies and mindsets. take yourself out on a solo date, get a nice meal, take yourself out shopping because you deserve to have time for yourself. read a new book, go on adventures, try new things because you deserve to live your life to it’s FULLEST! do EVERYTHING for YOU. you have gone through every battle, success, cry, celebration and all of the above since the very beginning with yourself so why not do things for you? give yourself more credit. remember: your choices, your dreams, your life.

love you. have the best year. im always here for you. x.