I Personally Wanna See Less 'you Are Not A Burden/it's Not Work To Love You' And More 'you Are Worth

I personally wanna see less 'you are not a burden/it's not work to love you' and more 'you are worth the work it takes to love you.' I KNOW I'm a burden sometimes. that isn't such a terrible thing! humans are strong. we can carry burdens. and it is work for me to be there for my friends, but it's work I'm willing to do.

we need to acknowledge this because pretending love isn't work will never make people like me feel less guilty for accepting love. we need to talk about it so people don't feel bad for having boundaries and not always being up to do the work. we need to accept it so we can properly appreciate what others do for us and what we're doing for them.

yes it does take work to love you. but guess what? you still deserve love, and you deserve people who are willing to do the work to love you. it doesn't make you bad. all love take work. and everyone is worth it.

it's a lie when people say that looks don't matter much because the first thing a person notices is your looks and based on that they decide if they want to approach you or not

When you start seeing your worth, you’ll stop seeing people who don’t.

i search for the meaning of something i know i don't have the strength of accepting

the sacredness of hand holding

the fact that a cat considers “sit in the same room ignoring each other” to be an acceptable social activity and not an insult is great for me because that’s how i like to socialise