CRYSTAL READING: How To Feel More Secure In Yourself

CRYSTAL READING: How to feel more secure in yourself

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1. Tiger's eye

There is a conflict within yourself about how you should present yourself to the world.

On one hand, you desire harmonious connections with people. You want to feel a sense of belonging. Because of that, you might even have a habit of people-pleasing, you are afraid that if you don't act nice, people won't accept you.

On the other hand, you feel restrictive of that habit and want to assert yourself more, creating some sudden outbursts that could take people by surprise.

You put weight on social interaction but also want to be free from the rules of that interaction.

There is nothing wrong with the desire to belong, but you may need to be more aware of the place from which that desire comes from. Is it motivated by fears? You have lots of compassion and a genuine desire for connection, to share, to nurture. Don't let that beautiful side of yours be restricted by fears and be confused with being just a means to achieve something.

To be secure with yourself is to be able to speak your truth. There will be always someone who doesn't agree with you or go against your opinions, but that doesn't mean you have to go along with them or, on the opposite, act defensive about it. Just communicate yourself clearly, with compassion and understanding, for both yourself and the other person. Practice being direct and firm yet soft and considerate at the same time. Finding the balance.

Also, I think that having a sense of direction for your life will make you feel a lot more secure in yourself. To feel that you're the one behind the driving wheel, that you are independent.

Learning and expand your knowledge of the world, to satiate your inner child's curiosity will help you feel more secured, as in, you will feel like your words have enough backbone to them and will be more confident in saying what you have to say.

2. Amethyst

There are lots of pairs in the image. It's like you would need to supplement one trait with another. To pair them up to create a more coherent story.

Sun with Mars, vitality and willpower. To spark and to act. Creatively.

Saturn with Moon, structure and nutrition. To build and to have. Steadily.

Pluto and Uranus, transformation and upheaval. To destroy and to change. Fundamentally.

Neptune and Jupiter, ideals and faith. To dream and to believe. Openly.

Mercury and Fear, thoughts and worries. To think and to feel. Gently.

Venus and Place, affection and destination. To love and to focus. Freely.

Child and Life, core and flow. To be and to go. Deeply.

For the question of how to feel more secure in yourself, the answer for you is simple, to know all of yourself, every nook and cranny, everything get to be acknowledged, no more hide and seek. The more you know about yourself, the more you will feel secure. Understanding of the self will lead to understanding of others. You will feel the flow of life and see that there is no need to hold on or to force something.

If you feel aspired towards something grand, like wanting to change the world. Don't ever think that you're too small for that. You have the ability of self-transformation, going through the birth of the self multiple times in this life.

Give your worrying mind a rest once in a while.

If you feel a lack, give yourself time and act steadily, your self worth is built over time, not in the blink of an eye.

3. Citrine

I get a story in my mind when I see your layout of the stones. A group of travellers finally settled down, built a place for themselves, and welcomed anyone to take shelter in their new home. They still go on adventures, but now they have a home to come back to. And those that are lost also can find a new home for themselves.

For you to feel more secure would be to do just like that, build a home for yourself to come back to, welcome others in, and go on adventures whenever you want. The home is not necessarily a physical house that you need to have. It's your inner home. The sense that whatever happens, you won't feel lost.

This inner home is built from inner faith. It may be religious beliefs, but it also may be just a holistic view of the world that formed in you during your journey in this life. But nonetheless, faith and spirituality are very important to you. It is the force from deep within your psyche that motivates your actions and desires. It can also manifest as physical symptoms and changes in the body. Keeping your heart healthy (figuratively and literally) will also keep your body healthy.

You may want to have a routine to practice spirituality. Conventional and well-known methods are good, but formulating your own from real-life observations and experiences is also important. Observe your dreams, have a conversation with the self regularly, and tune in to the collective stream.

But don't be too immerse in the inner working to the point of neglecting your mundane life and day to day responsibilities.

Life may throw you some crises along the way, but that is how you're tested and given opportunities to know and to be in your power. You may be taught the lesson of life's transience and how to respond with changes. Not by forcing your will or try to bend the situation to your desire but by self reflection and bring about transformation from within. That's how life is helping you build your inner home.

4. Amazonite

You may feel uncomfortable or challenged when having to put yourself out there. To promote yourself more. Maybe you feel that doing so is being egotistical and showing off. When you actually have to be in the spotlight or to be show yourself to an audience, because of that reservation, you would try to dim your light, almost like a desire to be egoless. It may also muddle your communication. You don't feel safe to deliver your thoughts in a more direct manner.

I feel that it's because of your soft inner self. It's vulnerable and a little fragile, easily bruised, or getting lost in the collective current. It feels very open. You may have the ability to tap into the collective feelings and delve into the subconscious. But be sure to bring back something with you from that trip. Not the burdens though, it's where you need to put discipline in yourself, to anchor yourself in somekind of physical form, to identify yourself as an individual self, not just a part of the whole. It's okay to have an ego. It helps us survive and navigate this world.

What you need to bring back are the insights that help you understand the world in a meaningful way. It may sound like a cliché but finding the meaning of life will help you be more secure in yourself.

And also, have compassion for your fears. No fear is unreasonable or silly. It's actually the source of your transformation. Whatever your fear is, be it the fear of the dark, fear of a certain animal, fear of intimacy, fear of death, etc. It's a human thing to have fears. To be alive is to have fears. So there should be no shame and guilt about those fears. To be secure in yourself is to accept your fallibility.

Love.

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FUTURE SPOUSE : THE FIRST MEETING (can also apply to long-term committed partner)

In this reading, we will look at how you and your future spouse will meet for the first time. What kind of situation will lead you two to meet?

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1. Pyrite

Your energy: Crow Their energy: Starfish

The meeting:

Someone might come off as a little too strong for the other person.

On that day, you will find them very alluring and physically attractive. They could be hanging out with friends and somehow they will stand out from the rest and catch your eyes, maybe they are the center of attention at that moment, bantering, telling some jokes that crack up the crowd. You could catch their laughing voice first before seeing them.

Even though you will be the one that notice them first, they will be the one that do the approaching.

The situation seems not really casual as in a beach party or some bar, but more serious. Could be something related to work and finance, could be a bank or where there will be people from the higher up, a meeting for work, some convention, or a conference, but people will be able to talk freely. There could be lots of foreigners or it will happen at a foreign place, a foreign country.

You will be there to learn something and exchange ideas. To find opportunities for change, which could be related to your finances, this situation will open opportunities for you to secure your finances more, to give you more stability. This is where you have to express yourself, show your creativity, something about making yourself stand out more. You will feel nervous, wanting to look around for an anchor. Maybe that's why you will be attracted to your person's voice or laughter, it will show confidence and ease.

For the meeting, it will be unplanned, out of the blue. Maybe you see them one moment but won't pay too much attention. After you turn away and turn back, they won't be there at the same place anymore and will have moved to somewhere else. But then some moments later, you guys kind of bump into each other or will be in close proximity to each other.

There won't be enough time to prepare yourself, so you will just react with the most natural reaction for a surprise. When you see someone that you have noticed them before and now they are approaching you, maybe you would get a little self-conscious and try to prepare yourself ? That kind of thing, but in this situation, you won't be able to do that.

They may notice that you're a little tense and want to make a conversation to put you at ease. Could be saying something funny or offhand, some random stuff that may not be related to the situation.

There will be a hidden undercurrent of sexual attraction. On that day, you will be on high alert mode, and your intuition will be sharper than usual. You may have an inkling that this person will play some important role in your life, but you will be distrustful. You may find them to be superficial and shallow, vain even. They may boast a little about their achievements, perhaps. But you won't find their words completely tasteless. Some of those would make you smile and feel more comfortable.

After this meeting, there may be some time before another contact. This connection seems to have many moments of surprises and separations, likely from external factors. There could be space and distance between you guys. Sometimes, you will feel like this connection would go nowhere and fading, then some surprises will spring up, and you two will connect again.

I feel colder months for this first meeting.

2. Strawberry quartz

Your energy: Moth Their energy: Bat

The meeting:

I see a big question mark. You guys will feel confused why you are meeting this person, why here, why now, who are they. Something feels both heavy and light with this group. You could meet them somewhere of a serious nature.

The image on the card shows you (the moth) flying up while them (the bat) flying down. This meeting has a certain fateful element to it. Two creatures meeting each other on their journey, completely unaware of each other until that moment, the meeting makes no sense but also make the most sense ?

Your energy is light, you seem to not take life too seriously at that time, you want to try different things, meet different people, going here and there, quite flighty. You would be in a hurry when meeting them. Running to somewhere. Could be carrying something, then drop it. Your energy feels a little clumsy and impulsive.

The place will be someone's home or at a real estate agency. A garden, somewhere private, that place will be decorated beautifully, could be a wedding. There will be a performance there, or someone will do something that pull everyone's attention to them. I feel that person could be you. You may say or do something to entertain the guests, intentionally or unintentionally. Or you stumbled, and everyone gathered to help you. Asking if you're okay. But someone will be nagging or say some harsh words that make you feel uneasy a bit.

Your person will be standing from a far, looking at the commotion, they may be in the process of leaving that place then heard the noise and turned back. Maybe that will be the first time that they notice you. They would want to come forward to help.

Your person's energy feels a lot heavier. They seem to be coming out of the dark, in the process of moving on, or have just moved on from something, someone. They will feel a sudden urge to approach, like someone is standing behind them, nudging them forward. But they may have trouble approaching you because of all the people surrounding you at that time. So there will be some hesitation, should I, should I not. Just a note, your energy feels younger than them, younger than everyone around you at that time also, or just physically smaller.

You seem upset or hurt, so they will want to approach carefully, they will be subtle, not saying much. But this interaction with you will somehow make a shift in their mind, subconsciously. They may still find it hard to let go of past situations. I see someone walking away, and their mind still linger on that direction. But meeting you will jolt them out of that reminiscing mode. They will question their feelings and their fears. Subconsciously, they already wanted to move on, and meeting you will be the final push.

While you, on the other hand, don't seem to think too deeply about this meeting. You will think that they are a nice person, someone helpful. But you will feel a sense of familiarity with them. Maybe you guys have seen each other in dreams before. Some kind of psychic connection.

The meeting will be on a sunny day, warm, could be spring or summer. At the time of the meeting, you guys will be at a confusing point of your life. Both will have some confusion and feeling lost, something is missing. This meeting will be a wake-up call to both, to make you reassess your mindset, digging deep within. Like walking aimlessly in the sea of dark mist, then suddenly a light is shone brightly for you.

3. Red jasper

Your energy: Buffalo Their energy: Elk

The meeting:

This group seems to have heavy earth energy. Two stable and grounded individuals meeting each other. For some of you, you may already meet this person, for other of you who haven't met this person yet, the meeting will be completely unpredictable. The stone represents the Place flung so faraway, so you guys will likely meet at a very faraway place, far from your home, foreign countries, not a short travel, could even be a change of living place.

Your energy is stable, but the meeting itself is the complete opposite. Some elements of spontaneity and surprises are here. You won't get any head up for this meeting (does this reading count ?), no inkling, no intuitive hunch. Your intuition on that day may be even lower than normal.

It could be because of the foreign environment, you will feel ungrounded and worry a little more than usual. You haven't gotten used to the new place yet. I'm getting something about feeling hungry and going out to find a place to eat. To explore the environment more. Your usual daily routines will be disturbed, you will do things and go to places that you have never been to before. If normally, you are the kind of person to go to bed early, you will stay up late at that time, or you don't normally eat a certain kind of food but being there will make you want to try out different things.

The setting will be at night. You could be walking on the street at night, exploring here and there. I see an art museum or some kind or large, beautiful building. And you will meet them there. Their energy will be pretty similar to you, grounded and stable, but they seem to be more established than you. Could be because they are the native of that place. They will want to guide you, giving you helpful advice. You will find them to be very reliable. They could work at the museum or just go there at the same time as you, but they know the place better than you so they could even give you a tour around. You guys will be talking to each other along the way. Slow walk, a little pause here and there, they may be walking a little behind you.

You will find yourself being very open to this person, an immediate trust. You and them will talk about something profound, quite philosophical, could be related to the contents that you guys are watching. They will talk a little more than you, you will get to learn more about them and find out that they are someone pretty well respected in the community. They may appear a little stubborn. There could be a debate, but nothing too heated. This person is usually a lot more reserved, but on that day, when they are with you, they will be more willing to open up. You guys will both feel comfortable with each other.

At the end of the meeting, you will exchange contracts with each other. A chance meeting that will turn into something more serious.

Maybe, on that night, when you return to your bed, you will find it hard to sleep, thinking about what you have said, what they have said, or on the opposite end, you will sleep soundly, peacefully. The earlier anxious feeling will go away. You and them may mutually feel a certainty about this connection, a future. Something that you can build together.

4. Blue agate

Your energy: peacock Their energy: cosmic egg

The meeting:

This group feels very straightforward. To be honest, I'm not getting many situations for you guys.

By the time you meet them, both of you will be in a state of inner peace. You have found your own contentment after a long journey. You have come to the point of having a compassionate view for life despite all the hardships along the way. All of that comes from being self-aware. Some of you may have gone through a dark night of the soul before meeting this person. Or both of you. You and them mirror each other.

I see some place for a retreat and to relax.

Daily life would put stress on your mind, so you would suddenly get the idea of going away to relax and enjoy yourself. This could be your usual way to deal with stress. You seem to be pretty balanced, knowing when to stop and take a rest. Maybe some friends will invite you to go with them somewhere. You will feel the nudge to go.

The place will be different from your usual go-to place. Somewhere heavy with scents and drinks. Could be a fair, an event, a concert. You may even receive a psychic reading there, some element of spirituality. They will be there, could be the one doing the reading for you, or participate in a group activity with you.

Immediately you guys will talk to each other, you just clicked. At first, sharing your thoughts about the event or the place, then later on going to more personal topics. You will find the other person's view and opinions on things in life that are pretty similar or harmonious with yours. Even if there are some differences, you will be able to understand and accept them. You guys could talk about your past experiences, the journeys that you took, travelling, religion, childhood stories, words just flow.

Accompanying that feeling of compatibility with be a strong physical attraction. You light up the other person, passions are ignited. Later on that day, you guys could be intimate with each other. The connection would progress pretty fast. Could be a hook up at first that will later develop into something more committed.

This group is pretty short, nothing complicated. You have learnt your own individual lessons, now it's time to learn the new lessons together. You guys will have many spiritual journeys together, to feel the expansiveness of your spirit and discover love in the highest sense.

Love.

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Ultimately the answers are always within yourself, I just provide an interpretation to help you find your way into the answers.

The readings are not meant to substitute medical or psychological treatment.

A little mirror for the self, grow your inner tree :

THE MAP TO YOUR SOUL

Your biggest strength

Your biggest weakness

What is lurking in your shadow ?

The part that you neglected

Your hidden fears

How to feel more secure in yourself

What should you cultivate more in yourself ?

Describing your inner home

Your energetic field

What messages come to you through dreams ?

How do your past lives influence your current life ?

What kind of people are you attracting into your life ?

Your superpowers

Getting in touch with your creativity

Your inner child

How to grow more confidence in yourself

People's first impressions of you

The journey of love and desire:

How to love yourself better : A letter from yourself (Channelled letter)

What kind of partner does your soul need right now ?

How does a healthy love for you feel like ?

Describe your future lover

How will you meet them? The first meeting

First impression of each other : you vs them

How they will pursue you (Channelled letter)

Who will you marry & your married life

What they love about you (Channelled letter)

What you love about them

Things they wish to tell you but find it hard to (Channelled letter)

The moment they fall in love with you (Channelled letter)

The moment they feel desire for you & their fantasy (channelled letter) - mature content, 18y/o do not interact)

How they act towards you vs other people

To answer "Hi, what do you do ?" :

What kind of career suits you best ?

The career of your choice, how will it be ? (Part 1), (Part 2)

Lucky signs, blessings, the path :

What would bring you good luck?

Signs that you are on the right path

Guide for direction

Guide for current situation

Predictions for the next 4 months

WHAT I DON'T DO READING ON : my readings focus mostly on promoting self development and self awareness. So I don't do readings that :

Can breach other people's privacy, mean to harm, abuse others

Reading about celebrity

Religious, world issues

Health, legal matters (please seek professional help for these matters)

Yes/no questions (you could ask "how" instead) 

Specific time

WHO IS YOUR FUTURE LOVE PARTNER ?

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1. Flourite

Energy: Sea serpent

This person's energy definitely not the fluffy, sweet type but I can't shake the association of their energy with a cream puff, the kind that has crusty, dry outer layers but soft and mushy cream inside ? Not to say they are mushy inside, but there is a certain softness and dreaminess inside them.

They are multifaceted, balanced between yin and yang energy, but can also be contradicting. Unstable yet rigid, intense yet carefree, practical yet spiritual, flirty yet pragmatic and serious, hard yet vulnerable. Sound a little like a mess don't they, but they don't let on all of these traits all at once. More like when you are viewing a kaleidoscope, a little turn, then you get a different picture. With this person, in different situations and with different people, talking about different topics, you will gradually get to see their different facets. It's fascinating to watch but could get a little tiring after a while.

At first impression, they will appear as a carefree and considerate person, a big personality, charming, it will be hard to have a negative impression of them. They could be involved in the art field, journalism, something creative, and with many interactions. They could have a certain genius to them, able to tap into hidden emotions, the odd one, the shameful one, the one that not many people want to touch but somehow this person will be able to pull out and transform it into something beautiful that can touch people's subconscious. When you guys have a connection, you would need to be pretty self-assured and have trust in them.

You could sense something a little backward with this person, like they're not moving onward totally but always have something that they want to look back at or return to. It seems like a general subconscious desire, not about a particular person or situation or thing.

For all their ever changing, kaleidoscopic image, they have pretty rigid and structured core beliefs and values. It won't be easy to pursue this person to change them, and you shouldn't. They are not forceful about it, and they won't like others to force something on them either. They want to be free and live their life according to their true beliefs.

This person don't feel really safe in this world, they could be paranoid deep inside, always expecting betrayal or some kind of crisis would befall them, and they are ready to act, so they could be quite guarded. To have a superficial relationship with them is easy, but getting deeper will take some time.

Their more poetic and romantic nature is reserved for the one closest. They may like role-playing, dressing up, be of service, and to tune in to whatever their partner desires, becoming the manifestation of that desire. In a sense, they could/like to lose themselves when they are intimate with their partner.

2. Clear quartz

Energy: fire ant

There is a silent heat to this person. They don't like to talk much or to express their ideas loudly. When they have an idea, they proceed to do it, no fuss, even with no announcement. I see that this trait could sometimes be irritating to you. But they are very sure about their actions, that's could be considered as dependable, the undependable part is their lack of communication.

This person like to indulge in their senses, in food, in experience that let them use their hand to touch and create something, in exhilarating activities that let them feel alive in their body,in romance, in physical intimacy, anything that has touching, tasting, hearing etc. They like to feel with all their five senses. They have a strong sixth sense too, their intuition are usually correct, but it manifests as something subliminal, a hunch, a dream, if they pay close attention to it, they would benefit greatly from it.

Go back to their five senses. There is a innate tendency to go overboard. But when something in their life or themselves crossed over a threshold (their own inner threshold), they feel like they are punished for it. Could be something mild as over indulged in sugar then feeling nauseating or having a headache, eating something not good for their body and get an immediate allergic reaction, to something more serious like being too focused on money and wealth, amassing large amount of money then somehow it's being taken away from them. They get a sense that if they put too much focus on building and forcing something into existence, it will collapse. Like an inner scale, an inner judge, always ready to bring equilibrium back.

So they will have a pretty balanced and disciplined approach, motivated by that fear of excesses leading to a collapse.

They have a fairly unconventional view of life, like the above mentioned fear, they observed their life and was able to thread a certain 'rule' for how to live in this world, almost like they had observed the rule of the universe. It may sound strange to other people, but it worked for them, and they want to abide by it. But they do realise how their belief will be perceived so they keep it low-key, not broadcasting it for all to see.

This person's life could revolve around a pretty big community. They may be involved in charity work, something about social services, and working with many people. They may be pretty busy, travel a lot, and don't have much time for personal hobbies or simple relaxation. Sleeping could be their favourite way to find balance after a heavy day.

3. Red jasper

Energy: mouse

Prepare to have a makeover for your life. This person could be a health-nut and organising freak. Their favourite show could be about home decoration and makeovers. They like their life to be tidy, well prepared, and pleasant overall.

They have a healthy glow to them, the kind that radiates when you are eating healthily and have a balanced self care routine. This person stands out, not easy to miss, but they don't seem to take pride in it. They have a healthy ego, maybe a good faith in life, just generally a good person to be around. Their life could seem easy for the onlookers, the kind that didn't have much drama growing up. But they don't feel naive or sheltered, just down to earth and warm, like freshly baked breads. Someone who can take good care of your emotional and physical needs without too much fuss.

Their energy feels abundant. They could be lucky in money matters. But there is a fear, they fear that if they don't have enough, others won't be with them. They could have a materialistic mindset about relationships. Could be from their past relationships, they have learnt that in order to achieve closeness with someone, they have to give and provide for that person. On a lighter note, they just want to give and spoil their person. That's how they express their love. There could be issues of over-giving and excess.

They like to be emotionally as close as possible with their partner, but sometimes they get suffocated by the closeness and want to detach a little bit. Could be expressed as one moment they are all over you, then next moment they just want to be alone, this is their dilemma. Maybe you and them just need to discuss this and reach an agreement to compromise before getting into a serious commitment. In physical expression, they would want to nurture and be nurtured by their partner, again, emotional closeness, but they also want novelty and exploration. They could surprise you with sudden bursts of passion and out-of-the-blue ideas. They would need their partner to be flexible,open-minded, and non judgmental.

Conversations with them would range from flirty banters, gossip about everything you guys can think up, late night heart-sharing talks to full-blown philosophical discussions. They are good at talking about mundane, daily stuffs but neither do they shy away from heavier topics. If they can meet their match, push the right buttons, then they can get super excited and intense in talking about their favourite subjects. Could be about social causes, spirituality, the art. They care a lot about humanity in general, so sometimes you would feel like you are competing with the whole humanity for their attention.

4. Aventurine

Energy: camel

This person is the personification of chillness.

Not many things can ruffle them. They may even respond to conflicts and insults with a calm smile (unintentionally or intentionally piss off the other person)

They are the problem solver, the one that everyone goes to for help. A pillar for others to lean on. They are dependable but independent.

They are able to do that not because of having an easy life or for having a natural calm disposition since birth. This calmness is forged through trials, mainly from internal demons of the mind.

Behind their placid exterior are thousands of thoughts spinning around. They would suffer from anxiety and overthinking, high fevers, and fatigue. But they have learnt to master themselves, having command over their thoughts. They are disciplined. Whatever anxiety they have, they will dispel it from their system, probably channelling through some creative activities or physical exercises. Self purification is their forte.

Even though they have such a tight reign on themselves, the way they act towards others is full of tenderness and understanding. They understand the hardship and suffering of people and respond with compassion. They are assertive and strong, but they give softness to others. This will also show in how they approach physical intimacy. They could sometimes like to be in a more passive role and let you take the lead.

They would be a great teacher, the one everyone looks up to for guidance. But here's the problem, their inner, more vulnerable self is often overlooked by others and even by themselves. When you meet someone who is strong and reliable, you tend to forget that they also have their own weakness and vulnerable moments. Too much discipline can push their more soft and childlike part faraway. They can receive other people's emotions well, but showing their own might not be easy. Maybe you would help them to get in touch more with that part. Tell their inner child that it's okay to come closer, that it's okay to let go and be wild a little. Suggest them to go on some trips with you spontaneously or introduce them to some different cultures, a change of scene, a little shock to their usual life. They would appreciate it a lot.

5. Citrine

Energy: deer

This person feels really reserved but not truly timid. Like seeing a wolf and a deer together. Is it the wolf that is standing in front of you with the deer peeking from behind the trees ?, or is it vice versa? You just can't tell. Are they intense or innocent? Are they flirty or serious ?. They don't necessarily mean to deceive or confuse anyone, they just don't feel comfortable showing all of themselves so they tried to hide some parts of them but quite unsuccessful, others can still pick up on their energy. They may act demure, but you can still pick up some intensity from them, which could be from when they are focusing on doing something and have a furrowed look to them. Or when there is something that they find funny, they laugh a little louder than normal.

There's something incongruous about this person. They could be a little awkward in incorporating various aspects of themselves into a unified, coherence presentation. Something in them will find a way to break free, no matter how much they try to hide it. Like someone who is usually quiet but suddenly talks loudly or someone who acts serious and low-key but has a collection of cute and bizarre t-shirts.

Whatever image they are perceived for, I think you and everyone will all notice that they have a pure and kind heart. They like to make other people feel welcomed and comfortable. They could heal your inner child wounds, you will feel more at ease with them.

But strangely, their own inner child is in deep hiding. They may not have a pleasant relationship with their parents, something about absence or immaturity. This could affect their way of navigating in life. But I feel that they will want to be a good parent to their kids so that their kids wouldn't feel what they had to feel in the past.

There's something innovative and fearless about them. They could have a lot of innovative ideas on how to improve their community. But it won't be easy. They could be under a lot of pressure from their peers just because of their differences. This would be stressful for their psyche.

For all those difficulties, your future partner will be in a prominent position in their work, and their voices will be heard. But you may have to help them watch their spending habit. They don't have a very firm grip on money matters. They work a lot so they may want to compensate by spending on luxurious things, especially for their loved ones.

Being intimate with their partner regularly would be a way to help them release some stress. They won't be selfish about it or make it feel like some kind of routine. Maybe they have some possessive streak in them, prefer to be in some place more isolated from the world, where there are only you and them without any interference, the feeling of only you and them exist in this world.

6. Tiger's eye

Energy: moth (+ dragonfly)

You would make a hasty judgement about them at first glance. They could appear childish or flaky to you. Unreliable or unclear in their intentions. Maybe that's their energy on that specific day, or there will be a misunderstanding. You guys could be in some project together, and they will seem to be not able to commit to the job, not finishing. Somehow, I sense that they could be a boss ? They are actually quite dedicated to their job and could even be workaholic. But your opinion about them may not be too favourable. They may come off as too flirty with questionable intention.

I had to take another oracle card to see their true energy. The card that came out was the dragonfly. The master of illusions and the mind. The situation at hand may be different than it appears at first glance. (I even had to redo the reading again after already done with the post because I couldn't shake the feeling that something was not quite right with this group)

This person is very elusive. People often don't have a clear view of who this person really is. Other people may project a lot on this person.

Their core energy seems pretty straightforward and quite intense, but somehow, others just have all kind of different opinions about them.

Actually this person is quite hard on themselves, they have insecurities about who they really are. It will be draining and confusing to be constantly misjudged. People won't see their insecurities at all. They will appear as a hardworking and serious person to general public, and becoming more soft and caring but somewhat hard to hold on to in their closer relationships, a very private person, something feels pure yet opaque about them. Could be that their job requires them to be in different roles.

It may take a while for you to see their core. You will have to have discerning eyes to see through their web of illusions and remind yourself constantly not to project your own unconscious ideas on them. I don't think they want to actively deceive anyone. It's just their subconscious way to cope with the world, maybe ?

This person has a spiritual side to them that not many will know about. They have an inner guiding voice that manifests as strong intuition. They may not understand why, but they are lucky. Every time they are in some kind of crisis or hardship, somehow they can get out of it safely.

They have a seductive voice and an emotional way of communicating, they understand and process emotions easily but there will be a analytical bent to it. You could hear some people describe them with all the masculine traits, but when being with them, you would feel more of their feminine energy. There's a otherworldly quality to them, detached from life in general. To them, an open heart conversation that go on and on, the kind that make you surprised when finally looking at the watch to see that 5 hours have passed, would even be better than physical intimacy, They seek emotional connection through the mind. They like sensual things but seem to be not too fond of the actual act. They may like to add a more imaginative touch to it.

Love.