ON The Subject Of Undernegotiated Kink In Fanfiction. I Think We Should Talk More About How The Concept

ON the subject of undernegotiated kink in fanfiction. i think we should talk more about how the concept of "not talking about it" is just as much wish fulfillment for some people as "in-depth, therapy-speak conversations where everyone is clear and understood" is for others

like yes, in reality the antidote to shame is open honest conversation with someone who will validate your feelings and wants blah blah blah but SOMETIMES what i want out of my fanfic is characters being understood without having to expose themselves in that way. SOMETIMES it's fun to not dismantle the shame and repression all the way and to instead treat that understanding-despite-not-being-clear as the fantasy

This scene hits different now

Calling your older sibling a nickname that they don't like and find to be embarrassing? Also a mood🤣

Sister Michael: An Icon DERRY GIRLS (2018 - 2022)

Zhaozai vibe ngl—

me talking in the tags on tumblr dot com