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SUCCESSION (2018-2023) Jeremy Strong as Kendall Roy

You're the man, Mr Roy. You're the man.

I also sobbed when I saw barbie appreciating an old woman, sitting beside her on the bench, because that's what a woman is and that's what being human is, and that's what life is and she saw imperfection and age and realized it was beautiful.

She was so scared of being imperfect and having cellulite and aging and dying, and then she saw how beautiful all of those things could be, and she cried, and I cried.

And I understood. And I felt understood.

real

this coffee tastes like i can still have a beautiful life

bar none this is one of the funniest one liners in the entire show and lives in my head rent free

What if the toys in toy story went to a catholic woman’s house and all of her figurines of crucified jesus started screaming out in endless pain whenever she left the room

Conversations with our younger selves.

this guy.

X

*puts myself through insufferable levels of stress by procrastinating* why’s life so hard???

people asking taylors friends to tell her to get it together meanwhile gigi’s dating leo dicaprio, pheobe’s making out with bo burnam in the vip tent after dumping paul, and abigail got married a year after getting divorced. well! maybe they’re besties for a reason!

breakfastless behavior

Your daily dose of cat memes

me in the sanitary pads aisle

shit man this got me emotional

no but the way grief and trying to be happy are so well balanced in all things end, wailing that all things end but that doesnt mean we didnt give it our all because some things just end, even if we don't want them to no one touch me im a wreck listening to this

I hyperfixated and read the lyrics to every Hozier song ✨

I was trying to find out what makes his music so much more comfortable to listen to, as a feminist, than so many other male artists.

It's not like Hozier's music isn't horny or sexual. And just wreathing your meaning in fancy words doesn't necessarily make a gross sentiment feel less gross, so it's not just the flowery language.

I actually think it's the attitude and approach. Where a lot of music is like, "she's so beautiful, she makes me feel so good, i desire her, i must have her," Hozier opts for an expression of awe, captivation and sometimes gratitude in his music. Instead of "i must have her," the sentiment is more like "I'm so lucky that she lets me be in her life for now."

Instead of "i met this beautiful girl and now i want her," Hozier is like, "this is a demanding pagan goddess that i worship", "this is a kind woman inviting a wild animal (me) into her house", "she is fire consuming all of my past lovers", "she dug me up out of the ground on accident with her bare hands", "she is an eldritch horror and i will devote my entire being to her", or "she is literally the sun". Even in songs that are less metaphor-heavy like Jackie and Wilson or Moment's Silence, she ALWAYS has all the power and agency. She's never a thing to be desired, she's a being to be respected, adored, and worshipped, and that one is lucky just to be noticed by.

I think that's really empowering, you know? Besides making for great poetry. Most of the time in pop culture women/femme people (especially those that love men) have to put up with being treated as an object. A precious or mysterious object sometimes, but an object nonetheless. I'd settle for being portrayed as a human with agency, but you know Mr Hozier, "goddess" or "eldritch entity" is amazing too. We love your music.

Ew dude gross, don't put your faith in me, I don't know where it's been.

"i could fix him" please don't it took a lot of work to fuck him up this bad