So Aren't You Sad About The Fact That You Can't Write Me?i Cheered The Loudest For You When You Won Your

so aren't you sad about the fact that you can't write me? i cheered the loudest for you when you won your trophies i'm on thе ground, how's the weather on your planеt? an empty house, the noise is loud, it's how you stand it

I’m getting fed up with this whole “feminism as an identity” thing. Time for “feminism as an action.”

So instead of asking “can a feminist do x?” ask “is doing x a feminist action!”

Can a feminist take her husband’s last name? Mu. Null. Question un-valid, please un-ask question.

Is taking your husband’s last name a feminist action? No it isn’t. It doesn’t challenge the patriarchy in anyway, it is the status quo thing to do, it is what is expected of women, and it carries a lot of historical baggage about ownership and shit like that.

But that’s okay, your life choices don’t have to be 100% dictated by your politics unless you want them to. And it’s okay to really want to take his name while recognizing that you also want to do the feminist thing and keep your own, and it’s okay to feel conflicted and have a hard time making the choice. But no more of this enabling “as long as I made the choice myself it is a feminist choice” -bullshit. Own your choices, even the ones that aren’t informed by your feminist politics. You are still a human being and people do shit that contradicts their politics and even interests all the time. Just stop pretending that everything you do is feminist because you are a feminist, that’s not how it works.

YOU GET IT.

I just saw the surprise songs from tonight, I'm so sorry bestie 😭 yail best song in the world

genuinely nothing will ever come close to “and you understand now why they lost their minds and fought the wars, and why i’ve spent my whole life trying to put it into words”

｡ﾟﾟ･｡･ﾟﾟ｡ ﾟ. July will bring blessings.

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The Opportunity rover's final words is now on the same emotionally devastating level for me as the two-headed calf poem jfc

"My battery is low and it's getting dark" "And as he stares into the sky, there are twice as many stars as usual" I am a blubbering mess

"and i can't lie and claim confused when i know just what happened/ you got bored and i felt usеd, now i'm all sad about it"